Jump in for a chat & make some friends. Post in places near your area of the country.

Yea.. Ohio, Oregon.. That's relatively near. Both States start with the letter 'O', and it is closer then Brazil or Australia.

I'm 85% with you on this... but don't start out with "Hi, I'm tim, I want a relationship"

Read their profile and ask them questions about themselves.

ok now i'm really confused lol
i'm not shallow i don't have any filters on my email because age,looks,race and weight isn't an issue as long as we have some things in common
I do believe a man and woman can be best friends and lovers at the same time and thats what i'm looking for someone that i can go camping with
or just talk for hours while waiting for the sunrise at the beach or take fishing or hiking
or a picnic with my daughter
i'm not picky but i don't like being hurt or taken advantage of either,but i guess none of us do right
thanks for all of the input,Tim

Hang out in the forums, you will see who has similar interests & views, then you have something to e mail them about.

I'm not sure why you are confused or felt the need to clarify the following points. All I saw was some advice from differing points of view.

What did you expect? The same answer from everyone?

Yes.... why are you confused?

Who said you were shallow or picky?

You do have restrictions on your profile...age restriction, milage restriction..why do people do this? I think you need to expand those a little.
I don't think theres anything wrong with sending out emails, BUT when you start an email off by stating you want to get married....I wouldn't even answer it! Not all people are here for a committed relationship, some just want friendship! Just send out a few emails and start out by making small talk. BUT ask a few questions and that way they have to answer you.
Good luck

Tim, at the bottom of your profile it states "to message this person you must meet the following criteria...." check the ages you have listed there, that means only people within a certain age bracket or distance can contact you.

Listen to lilith she is wise beyond her age!!!! Besides tell us what you want don't make yourself out to be something you are not!!!! Honesty is a big key!!!!!!!!!!!

no one said i was picky or shallow i was just making a statement and i guess i was looking for a little more clarity on my question but i should have known better lol some women want just a friendship and some want more than that
i want both and from the same woman lol
i guess i'll just have to write how i feel and hope for the best
and i don't have restrictions on who can write to me as for my profile i put the ages at whereever they are becuse i didn't want a woman to think i was after a really young woman or a sugar momma lol i hope you know what i mean
and what is milage restriction i'm not looking for a car // unsure ?

I'm not a woman, so my expertise may be passed up. But have you tried just saying hi to them? You know kind of like the site...perhaps I am way off, but it works once in awhile.

The best advice I could possibly offer. Read it..from front to back.
http://www.justsayhi.com/welcome/help

Listen to this man .. he is full of good advice.



And




when you're thru reading the link he gave you .....

do one more thing








((((((((((((((((( RELAX )))))))))))))))))

Mabey you should change your settings I was going to email you but you only accept from people who are looking for intimate encounters. Mabey that would help as well.

post. often, with gusto and abandon...but not necessarily reckless abandon

engage them with barbs, porcupines, baby powder and silly string

This is ten percent luck, twenty percent skill
Fifteen percent concentrated power of will
Five percent pleasure, fifty percent pain
And a hundred percent reason to remember the name...

-Ft. Minor

After reading your profile...

You say you are honest, caring, loyal...etc..etc... Pretty generic really. It looks like what every other person here thinks of themselves. What we think really does not matter in the grand scheme of things. I'm pretty sure Jeffery Dahmer said some of the same things about himself as well.

Most of what little is written is about what you want and do not want.
You might consider writing a bit more about you.. something that represents what you have to offer. Some indicators as to what this particular woman might be attracted to. The fact is? This woman is probably going to be pretty intuitive and intelligent... Something generic about you..and talking about what you want and do not want? Probably is not going to cut it.

I know that before Lilith and I started talking.. I found women's profiles talking anything about what they do not want and their various requirements.. pretty off putting.

*Side note...
Do not use my profile as any sort of an example. I'm not looking for anything. So there is nothing.

That is often debated... But thanks anyhow.

And I agree with her last word. Relaxing would help.

your not funny froglittlesis i don't except mail from women just looking for a one nighter

Who said I wanted a one nighter thanks but I am celebit have been for over a year just thought you wanted some friends as well.