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Topic: Wanting to know what to do ..
itsmetina's photo
Sun 04/06/08 07:49 PM
yes u r blind in love.get over it is the best advice i wasted 2 yrs

solestria's photo
Sun 04/06/08 07:58 PM

Ok So after 4 yrs my bf decides to end it, then tells me that I have a chance later down the road at us again, and that if I dont go looking for anyone he wont go looking for anyone and blah blah.

So here it is a year later and we are still talking but, he seems to get mad when I talk about going to go out he says well you moved on fast or do what you gotta do I mean hey I cant stop you.

Now keep in mind this is a guy I gave my heart and soul to and spent every minute i had making sure he knew i loved him and that he was my only one.

I am not sure what another chance down the road means espically when he said if i dont look he wont, am I suppose to sit and wait for him to make up his mind or is this just his way of saying he wanted time and that now I am not sitting here waiting for him he is getting mad at me?
Someone tell me something please I am so confused!!


Well, are you willing to sit and wait for him to make up his mind, or do you believe that you're worth more than that? Honestly, it sounds like you might do well to take a break from him and cut contact for a while, while you figure out who you are without him and what you want from life.

Don't put your life on hold for a man, especially if he won't commit to you.

chickayoshi's photo
Sun 04/06/08 07:59 PM

yes u r blind in love.get over it is the best advice i wasted 2 yrs


Agreeing here. I figured let him come to you if he wants you. Other than that, love will screw you over...even if the guy seems to be everything you were looking for. :cry:

Totage's photo
Sun 04/06/08 08:02 PM

Ok So after 4 yrs my bf decides to end it, then tells me that I have a chance later down the road at us again, and that if I dont go looking for anyone he wont go looking for anyone and blah blah.

So here it is a year later and we are still talking but, he seems to get mad when I talk about going to go out he says well you moved on fast or do what you gotta do I mean hey I cant stop you.

Now keep in mind this is a guy I gave my heart and soul to and spent every minute i had making sure he knew i loved him and that he was my only one.

I am not sure what another chance down the road means espically when he said if i dont look he wont, am I suppose to sit and wait for him to make up his mind or is this just his way of saying he wanted time and that now I am not sitting here waiting for him he is getting mad at me?
Someone tell me something please I am so confused!!





Love waits for no man... or woman.

I would say if you feel like moving on, move on now.

What are you going to do, be alone the rest of your life because he wants you to be alone?

flowerforyou

OneOfAKind4U's photo
Sun 04/06/08 08:02 PM
hes playing games move on keep on trucking and dont look back,you find someflowerforyou one

wickedlluccy's photo
Sun 04/06/08 08:13 PM

Ok So after 4 yrs my bf decides to end it, then tells me that I have a chance later down the road at us again, and that if I dont go looking for anyone he wont go looking for anyone and blah blah.

So here it is a year later and we are still talking but, he seems to get mad when I talk about going to go out he says well you moved on fast or do what you gotta do I mean hey I cant stop you.

Now keep in mind this is a guy I gave my heart and soul to and spent every minute i had making sure he knew i loved him and that he was my only one.

I am not sure what another chance down the road means espically when he said if i dont look he wont, am I suppose to sit and wait for him to make up his mind or is this just his way of saying he wanted time and that now I am not sitting here waiting for him he is getting mad at me?
Someone tell me something please I am so confused!!






...my 21 yr old son came by 2nite and said his 17yr old girl friend just said all those same things to him....I told him, it was because she is young and imature, I can't help but think the same thing goes for him, he has some growing up to do...


:heart:~wicked~:heart:

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