Topic: How do you go about...
SummerBunnyHoney's photo
Sun 04/06/08 02:47 PM
telling a person you like them? I like this guy who is more of a friend, I mean we like to hang out a lot and he makes me laugh and feel good about my self,and I think I am starting to like him more and more. I just dont know when would b the perfect time to tell him i like him more than a friend. Should i set up a romantic evening? should i tell him up front?

Any advice will be helpful :wink:

PATSFAN's photo
Sun 04/06/08 02:49 PM
Follow your heart

ShellyinAZ's photo
Sun 04/06/08 02:50 PM
don't rush things... let it happen naturally... and it will

no photo
Sun 04/06/08 02:50 PM
tell him you REALLY like him and that you're interested in having a more specific relationship with him. be truthful, be sincere, and be respectful. and -most of all- respect his decision if he DOESN'T want to bite (figuratively, that is).

mssilverfox's photo
Sun 04/06/08 02:51 PM

Follow your heart





Patsfan always has the best answers

SummerBunnyHoney's photo
Sun 04/06/08 02:52 PM
I think all of you have the bes answers :smile: thanks ill guess i will see what happends

bastet126's photo
Sun 04/06/08 02:53 PM
i don't get these questions, if you're good friends you should be able to just talk about this - it's not like you're asking him to marry you -- just do it!!! nothing ventured, nothing gained. good luck flowerforyou

Monier's photo
Sun 04/06/08 02:53 PM
Ooooh, planning romance, my favorite love


Mood and environment is everything. Go someplace together that you can just walk and enjoy the scenery. Someplace outdoors, but it has to be quiet and beautiful. Sunday evenings are magic! Don't plan anything to say. Let the 'moment' take you both over. You'll know if he feels anything serious for you soon enough.


My personal favorites are winter walks, just before Christmas, a light snowfall, and all of the lights!


lilith401's photo
Sun 04/06/08 03:07 PM
I think if you build it up and plan you will just get stressed out and nervous. Just wait for a time when you are already alone and having fun and tell him.

sexxyandsingle's photo
Sun 04/06/08 03:15 PM
noway Are you Being series!? noway

no photo
Sun 04/06/08 03:19 PM
Make all your plans,

but pick up the phone and call him.flowerforyou

SummerBunnyHoney's photo
Sun 04/06/08 03:21 PM

noway Are you Being series!? noway


no im not being "series" im not a tv show lol

PATSFAN's photo
Sun 04/06/08 03:23 PM
laugh laugh laugh laugh

solestria's photo
Sun 04/06/08 03:35 PM
Just tell him. You're friends, right? As I see it, it's much easier to be told that he's not interested than to set up a romantic evening and risk blind-siding someone who may not be interested in more than a friendship with you.

And if he says he's interested as well, THEN set up the romantic evening!