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Topic: Ex Boyfriend
chris1979's photo
Sun 04/06/08 02:32 PM

My ex walked back in my life the other day after 7 months of not seeing him. He cheated on me and now wants to go out on a date with me. I was finally getting past him and now I'm confused as to what to do. I still love him and he said he was done with the games. But is he really?
tell the loser to get a life

Monier's photo
Sun 04/06/08 02:32 PM
Tell him his car is ugly, he smells, and he was a horrible kisser. Make sure to be laughing loudly as he walks away.

Lilplantgirl's photo
Sun 04/06/08 02:34 PM

Tell him his car is ugly, he smells, and he was a horrible kisser. Make sure to be laughing loudly as he walks away.


I'm not a heartless *****

no photo
Sun 04/06/08 02:36 PM
wow...we need better role models and mentors for relationships...communication, forgiveness...don't be mean and if he breaks your heart again at least you are alive and can feel love and move on in the future....those other posts must be jokes...

Lilplantgirl's photo
Sun 04/06/08 02:39 PM

wow...we need better role models and mentors for relationships...communication, forgiveness...don't be mean and if he breaks your heart again at least you are alive and can feel love and move on in the future....those other posts must be jokes...
Thank you and ya some posts are jokes.

hikerchick's photo
Sun 04/06/08 02:42 PM

Hurt him back,tell him you slept with his best friend.


that's just wrong.

Monier's photo
Sun 04/06/08 02:46 PM


wow...we need better role models and mentors for relationships...communication, forgiveness...don't be mean and if he breaks your heart again at least you are alive and can feel love and move on in the future....those other posts must be jokes...
Thank you and ya some posts are jokes.


No seriously, what do we get for letting people back into our lives that hurt us? The opportunity to get hurt again of course! Nobody learns anything from mistakes if there are no conscequences. It's not being heartless, it's being real, and not letting somebody use you again. Make him realize he screwed up, or else let him do it to you again.

Who knows, some people are into pain, you never know.

toastedoranges's photo
Sun 04/06/08 03:23 PM
leave him be.

while i do generally agree with the "once a cheater always a cheater" mantra, it's not always true. some people do change and realize their errors. most people don't

if he cheated on you, leave him be. you can do better than a cheater

Silntstrnger's photo
Sun 04/06/08 03:28 PM
i had that situation happen to me once..once the trust is crushed there is no turning back what he did..and nothing will be the same.

madamx7316's photo
Sun 04/06/08 03:31 PM
gotta go with the majority on this one darlin...RUN!

solestria's photo
Sun 04/06/08 03:33 PM
The question is, do you trust him?

ephraimglass's photo
Sun 04/06/08 03:34 PM
Edited by ephraimglass on Sun 04/06/08 03:36 PM
You say that you love him, but another important question that you should ask yourself is, "Do I trust him?" I suspect that the answer is probably no because you are conflicted about this situation. It is a mistake to believe that love is sufficient. Your love can not make him change. If you do not trust that he's changed by his own will, then loving him will not make the relationship work.

EDIT:
The question is, do you trust him?

Heh. Great minds think alike. If I'm ever in Maryland, want to go out for a burger?

solestria's photo
Sun 04/06/08 03:44 PM

You say that you love him, but another important question that you should ask yourself is, "Do I trust him?" I suspect that the answer is probably no because you are conflicted about this situation. It is a mistake to believe that love is sufficient. Your love can not make him change. If you do not trust that he's changed by his own will, then loving him will not make the relationship work.

EDIT:
The question is, do you trust him?

Heh. Great minds think alike. If I'm ever in Maryland, want to go out for a burger?


Good advice.

And sure, as long as the burger doesn't actually contain any meat!

UnclePorky's photo
Sun 04/06/08 04:54 PM

My ex walked back in my life the other day after 7 months of not seeing him. He cheated on me and now wants to go out on a date with me. I was finally getting past him and now I'm confused as to what to do. I still love him and he said he was done with the games. But is he really?
WAKE UP toss him out of your mind

Totage's photo
Sun 04/06/08 04:56 PM

My ex walked back in my life the other day after 7 months of not seeing him. He cheated on me and now wants to go out on a date with me. I was finally getting past him and now I'm confused as to what to do. I still love him and he said he was done with the games. But is he really?


He's not done, he's wants to play with you some more. You did good for 7 months, don't go back.

flowerforyou

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