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Topic: The person in control of
Peccy's photo
Fri 04/04/08 11:06 AM
the relationship is the person who cares the least.

What are your thoughts on that statement?

brimstone's photo
Fri 04/04/08 11:08 AM
In some cases I agree...

no photo
Fri 04/04/08 11:08 AM
Edited by Ghostrider2u on Fri 04/04/08 11:10 AM
I could care less who's in control.....................















as long as she's good at it......................














laugh laugh devil laugh laugh

zhiba's photo
Fri 04/04/08 11:09 AM
aaah, control! Interesting subject :wink:

Yes, I totally agree

no photo
Fri 04/04/08 11:11 AM
every female on planet earth is submissive to me......

bobdesigns4262's photo
Fri 04/04/08 11:11 AM
its all about me and the boobies

ADiamond's photo
Fri 04/04/08 11:12 AM
control: means
1. power to direct or regulate
2. reserve, restraints
a device for regulating a mechanism

huh huh huh huh huh huh could be true......

lilith401's photo
Fri 04/04/08 11:22 AM

the relationship is the person who cares the least.

What are your thoughts on that statement?


It makes no sense. If they did not care why would they be in control? I only try to control or influence things about/over which I care....

Peccy's photo
Fri 04/04/08 11:27 AM


the relationship is the person who cares the least.

What are your thoughts on that statement?


It makes no sense. If they did not care why would they be in control? I only try to control or influence things about/over which I care....
It makes perfect sense to the other person. One is head over heels and one is not. The one who is will try desperately to make the other happy and stay in the relationship; thus, giving the other control.

Lily0923's photo
Fri 04/04/08 11:29 AM
Absolutly.......

Lily0923's photo
Fri 04/04/08 11:30 AM

every female on planet earth is submissive to me......


haha.... that's all I can conjure up at this time in response to this comment.....

no photo
Fri 04/04/08 11:30 AM


the relationship is the person who cares the least.

What are your thoughts on that statement?


It makes no sense. If they did not care why would they be in control? I only try to control or influence things about/over which I care....
ditto!bigsmile

Goofball73's photo
Fri 04/04/08 11:30 AM
Yay for nut jobs....I mean control freaks.

Lily0923's photo
Fri 04/04/08 11:40 AM
It's simple psychology really. However there are many different levels to it.

You always want something you can't have. Look at the 3 day rule for calling a girl.

It's called the "mating ritual" or "the dance"

The guy that fawns all over you, you tend to ignore, the one that gives you attention...but not too much. Is the one you always want.


lilith401's photo
Fri 04/04/08 11:41 AM

It makes perfect sense to the other person. One is head over heels and one is not. The one who is will try desperately to make the other happy and stay in the relationship; thus, giving the other control.


Ahhh.. you mean this scenario makes sense to you. I have not experienced being in a relationship with someone that does not care or if I do not care. If that happens? The relationship ends.

Lily0923's photo
Fri 04/04/08 11:49 AM


It makes perfect sense to the other person. One is head over heels and one is not. The one who is will try desperately to make the other happy and stay in the relationship; thus, giving the other control.


Ahhh.. you mean this scenario makes sense to you. I have not experienced being in a relationship with someone that does not care or if I do not care. If that happens? The relationship ends.


IN a relationship sense, no that doesn't make sense, that is abuse. But in the very begining, that is a different story.

Peccy's photo
Fri 04/04/08 11:53 AM
I don't mean in a relationship where you have been together for a while, I mean Like Lily said, a budding one.

lilith401's photo
Fri 04/04/08 11:56 AM
Edited by lilith401 on Fri 04/04/08 11:56 AM

I don't mean in a relationship where you have been together for a while, I mean Like Lily said, a budding one.



Ahhhhhh you mean unrequited love.

Oh that is just sad and pathetic. It has happened to me. I felt sad and pathetic.

Peccy's photo
Fri 04/04/08 11:58 AM


I don't mean in a relationship where you have been together for a while, I mean Like Lily said, a budding one.



Ahhhhhh you mean unrequited love.

Oh that is just sad and pathetic. It has happened to me. I felt sad and pathetic.
Think it has happened to all of us at one time.

Totage's photo
Fri 04/04/08 11:59 AM

the relationship is the person who cares the least.

What are your thoughts on that statement?


The person with the most control doesn't care about the other person, but about the control they have over that other person.

It would depend more on the circumstances of the realtionship though, as to whether that's true or not.

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