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Date someone you knew cheated in the past?
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What a good question....
depends, I did it once, and it didn't bode well for me... the only time I was cheated on was with him. It depends on their attitude about it I think. Do they honestly act like they were sorry? Do they take full ownership for it... (Not my wife didn't give me affection or some BS like that) |
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Edited by
itsmetina
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Thu 04/03/08 06:15 AM
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thats hard because you hope the person has changed and i'd appreciate their honesty and proceed with caution
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If they did it once, why wouldn't they do it again?
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If they did it once, why wouldn't they do it again? That's not always the case. |
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Edited by
SKPCG
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Thu 04/03/08 06:21 AM
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If they did it once, why wouldn't they do it again? Because, believe it or not, some people do LEARN from mistakes. 
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once a cheat always a cheat used to be everyones motto but I think honestly over time people do change!!
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But are you willing to take that chance? If they rationalized it before and did it, what's to stop them from making that decision again? I think it's a gamble.
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everythings a gamble
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I wouldn't hold it against them. I think I could give them the benefit of the doubt, I would just make sure to let them know that if they ever felt that urge again, to just go ahead and break things off with me before hand.
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yeah that would have saved about 3 yrs of my life
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I wouldn't hold it against them. I think I could give them the benefit of the doubt, I would just make sure to let them know that if they ever felt that urge again, to just go ahead and break things off with me before hand.  I told her the same thing but it didn't work,,, She left me for a guy that was cooking dope and she wanted to see if it worked out between them before she told me????
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I wouldn't hold it against them. I think I could give them the benefit of the doubt, I would just make sure to let them know that if they ever felt that urge again, to just go ahead and break things off with me before hand. I told her the same thing but it didn't work,,, She left me for a guy that was cooking dope and she wanted to see if it worked out between them before she told me???? Thats just wrong. I'm sorry sweety!
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Well i believe that everyone makes mistakes, and i dont believe once a cheater always a cheater. People do it for differant reasons. Just treat the person your with the way everyone deserves and they wont wonder. i have never had a problem with someone cheating unless the relationship was already over and we were just working on a dead relationship that wasnt going to work anyway...so yes i would give them a chance the past is in the past.
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I did give someone the benefit of the doubt....and I made a mistake because she asked another guy out behind my back when we were exclusive....so....no I would not. Tried it and it failed...
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depends on the age the person was when he cheated... was he married with kids... did he claim to love her when he cheated and probably what was I was looking for? All of those would need to be answered before i could say yes ir no.
L do believe that once a cheater always a cheater. |
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I wouldn't hold it against them. I think I could give them the benefit of the doubt, I would just make sure to let them know that if they ever felt that urge again, to just go ahead and break things off with me before hand. and are you sure you want the emotional risk...if that does happen...my wife used to tell me...if you feel you have to go out on me...make sure you give it to her good...dont embarrass me...come to find out...she was justifying her going out on me...i would never want to go throuh that again...point blank... |
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I guess it would also have to do with their age, a 20 something that cheats is not the same as someone in their 40's doing it. With a 20's person, it may just be immaturity and won't happen again, but someone who is 30's or 40's, they have a problem.
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I did give someone the benefit of the doubt....and I made a mistake because she asked another guy out behind my back when we were exclusive....so....no I would not. Tried it and it failed... well that was her. doesnt mean that someone else would do the same... |
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There is a guy on here, that I talk to occasionally, nothing romantic, but he recently told me he was still married, and lived with his wife..... I was like, what? he has sort of been courting a girl, (haven't seen her in about a month tho) and I asked if she knew, he said no, I'm going to leave my wife soon, but I can't just yet...
WTF??? |
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