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Topic: I am going through some pain
theels08 Joined Mon 12/03/07 Posts: 1133	Tue 04/01/08 02:32 PM
Do i really need to keep faith and god in me because for the past few weeks i been struggling, and i am trying so hard but my heart keep telling me to give up and there are nothing in this world for me, accept my love for sports, Deep inside of me I really care about people, and my parents and i are going at it, They dont believe in me, And i dont believe in them, I just wish there someone i can talk to beside getting help from a counselor. And there are so many things that i cant let it go

irad8you Joined Tue 09/04/07 Posts: 8261	Tue 04/01/08 02:34 PM Edited by irad8you on Tue 04/01/08 02:35 PM
I have 5 letters for you, F A I T H.

theels08 Joined Mon 12/03/07 Posts: 1133	Tue 04/01/08 02:34 PM
I am saying this from my heart and my thoughts.

Winx Joined Fri 08/31/07 Posts: 39051	Tue 04/01/08 02:36 PM
Is it possible that you are going thru a depression? Or are you just feeling kind of down?

lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Tue 04/01/08 02:36 PM
When you decide to take control of your life and let it go... you will. It is hard work and maybe a professional would be best.

theels08 Joined Mon 12/03/07 Posts: 1133	Tue 04/01/08 02:38 PM
I am not depressed, I am just struggling

sweetandstrong Joined Sat 02/24/07 Posts: 1438	Tue 04/01/08 02:38 PM
In your darkest hour, you are never alone. God is there. That is his promise to us. I promise you that the sun will always rise and that you will get threw these troubling times. You are never alone. Right now, you have 1000's of people on this site to talk to.

CyPoet Joined Fri 01/11/08 Posts: 12494	Tue 04/01/08 02:40 PM
Well lil man if U do not let go of these issues that U have locked up inside of U then U will not be able 2 move fwd which will impede U from learning & growing.Have U considered counseling in addition 2 accuiring a hobby?Good Luck!lil dude.Godspeed!Cy

LadyOfMagic Joined Fri 09/29/06 Posts: 4957	Tue 04/01/08 02:40 PM
I am saying this from my heart and my thoughts. In MY experience counselors/shrinks don't help anyways..I've seen a few and I remember one that laughed at me the whole time that I was talking to him..and another told me that I'm not really in pain or disabled..I'm just mad at my "daddy" so stop being mad and my health probs will go away.

theels08 Joined Mon 12/03/07 Posts: 1133	Tue 04/01/08 02:41 PM
Well lil man if U do not let go of these issues that U have locked up inside of U then U will not be able 2 move fwd which will impede U from learning & growing.Have U considered counseling in addition 2 accuiring a hobby?Good Luck!lil dude.Godspeed!Cy i am not going to counseling, I can feel that im the lamest kid in school and i have nobody in this world, even take a chance and say hey Kevin " How are you man" you want to hang out" I dont have that kinda stuff

hellkitten54 Joined Sun 01/06/08 Posts: 11707	Tue 04/01/08 02:44 PM
I am going to have to agree with Lilith. You have to take control of your own life, nobody else can do it. Why should you care of what people at school feel about you? Is it high school? It's so much different in the "real" world. And you could pray all day, but you are the only one who can change anything about your life.

LadyOfMagic Joined Fri 09/29/06 Posts: 4957	Tue 04/01/08 02:45 PM
Well lil man if U do not let go of these issues that U have locked up inside of U then U will not be able 2 move fwd which will impede U from learning & growing.Have U considered counseling in addition 2 accuiring a hobby?Good Luck!lil dude.Godspeed!Cy i am not going to counseling, I can feel that im the lamest kid in school and i have nobody in this world, even take a chance and say hey Kevin " How are you man" you want to hang out" I dont have that kinda stuff Just because you don't have friends to hang out with doesn't make you any less of a person..crap the only people I have to "hang out" with are my friends online..you gotta be comfortable with yourself before you can expect others to be.

theels08 Joined Mon 12/03/07 Posts: 1133	Tue 04/01/08 02:45 PM
I am going to have to agree with Lilith. You have to take control of your own life, nobody else can do it. Why should you care of what people at school feel about you? Is it high school? It's so much different in the "real" world. And you could pray all day, but you are the only one who can change anything about your life. I am not really a religious type of person, but i believe in god no matter what, But the evil thing is keep getting into me and like make me do bad stuff and think about that kind of stuff

Abracadabra Joined Thu 04/12/07 Posts: 17851	Tue 04/01/08 02:45 PM
If your parents are having problems between themselves, and they aren’t being optimistic or supportive of you, that’s a real bummer. The main thing of it is that you’re of age now. As callous as this may sound, getting out on your own might be the best thing you could do for yourself. It’s not impossible. You’re an adult. Take control of your life and move out. Get involved with POSITIVE PEOPLE. Choose the people you hang round with carefully. That’s the key. Not saying it’s easy. Just saying it’s key. That’s all. Take control of your life. Don’t be dust in the wind.

theels08 Joined Mon 12/03/07 Posts: 1133	Tue 04/01/08 02:48 PM
If your parents are having problems between themselves, and they aren’t being optimistic or supportive of you, that’s a real bummer. The main thing of it is that you’re of age now. As callous as this may sound, getting out on your own might be the best thing you could do for yourself. It’s not impossible. You’re an adult. Take control of your life and move out. Get involved with POSITIVE PEOPLE. Choose the people you hang round with carefully. That’s the key. Not saying it’s easy. Just saying it’s key. That’s all. Take control of your life. Don’t be dust in the wind. i dont even have a license,

theels08 Joined Mon 12/03/07 Posts: 1133	Tue 04/01/08 02:48 PM
If your parents are having problems between themselves, and they aren’t being optimistic or supportive of you, that’s a real bummer. The main thing of it is that you’re of age now. As callous as this may sound, getting out on your own might be the best thing you could do for yourself. It’s not impossible. You’re an adult. Take control of your life and move out. Get involved with POSITIVE PEOPLE. Choose the people you hang round with carefully. That’s the key. Not saying it’s easy. Just saying it’s key. That’s all. Take control of your life. Don’t be dust in the wind. i dont even have a license, I do everything bymyself

lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Tue 04/01/08 02:50 PM
So when are you going to take control over your life. You are an adult. GO DO.

Winx Joined Fri 08/31/07 Posts: 39051	Tue 04/01/08 02:50 PM Edited by Winx on Tue 04/01/08 02:55 PM
I am saying this from my heart and my thoughts. In MY experience counselors/shrinks don't help anyways..I've seen a few and I remember one that laughed at me the whole time that I was talking to him..and another told me that I'm not really in pain or disabled..I'm just mad at my "daddy" so stop being mad and my health probs will go away. Your counselors needed counselors.

markerf16 Joined Tue 08/21/07 Posts: 80	Tue 04/01/08 02:50 PM
I can understand how you feel. I have struggled with just giving up sometimes. Life can be painful. So I try to find just enough faith to make it day by day. Try not to think so much about the future. Live and love for today and God will give you what you need to make it. I will pray for you bud! Life is not fair but it is good. Its up to us to find the good in every situation...

what_heck Joined Fri 11/23/07 Posts: 897	Tue 04/01/08 02:52 PM
Have faith that everything is going to be allright! Because IT WILL.