Asking for advice here guys and gals. My resently seperated husband is in town at his sisters and we met last night briefly. I have picked up pieces of all hurt and anger towards him since I have been here. When I saw him I wanted to die. He won't even acknoledge the fact I am in a room with him. What to do?

You cant change him. If he choses to act ignorant and childish you can not change that. Just know that you have picked up the pieces and be civil towards him. maybe he will come around.

smile and look pretty and act as u would if he were not there..

Be u..

Did it all the time....

Big blended family..puts u in the same place often...

They eventually say hello...

Good thing he's your ex!

His ignoring you may be for any number of reasons. He may feel uncomfortable around you. He may have thought you are angry with him and chose not to say anything for fear of creating an incident. Maybe he's feeling guilt. Maybe he's angry. I could go on and on. If you're going to dwell on his ignoring you afterwards, then next time you are in the same situation, be amiable and make the first move. Approach him and talk to him in a "social" sense. If he walks away or shows some hint of anger or stress, then leave it be. If not, then you can clearly still be friends.

Walk away?

I know, I know...it's not that simple, but it has always been that easy for me so I suppose I really don't see the difficulty.

I tried that last night and he just acted like I wasn't even talking. Thanks all for the advice.

Ask yourself why you would care when he obviously is showing he doesn't. You are better off knowing what kind of person he is and you will fair better by accepting that you deserve better than that.

Go to your local Wal-Mart and buy a box of bullets. It doesnt matter what kind. Next time your in the room with him accidently allow a few bullets fall from your pocket. He won't be able to take his eyes off of you the rest of the time.

Good one Myrtle Beach. I will have to remember that one.

What is it exactly you are asking?

that is the best advice i have heard in a long time!!!!!!!!that made me lol to the wal-mart person this posting goes to

well,first your a very beautiful women,and if he is that way,then find someone who'll treat you like the queen you are

who is going to be my friend

are u there to talk to me

Except that here is FL we jut had a woman do exactly that. Then the morning they were supposed to go to court, she shot him in self defense 6 times, in the back.

Resently? Was that a Freudian slip? Just kidding. Perhaps, he feels uncomfortable in your presence and thus chooses to avoid you. On the other hand, maybe he's just an asshole. Most of us are. Don't if that's genetic or a learned trait exactly.

If I were you, I'd forget about it and move onward. No point in letting this gnaw at you. Life's too short.

that just shows he's not over it either...Remember the 4th grade and **insert name here** used to pull your hair... boys are dumb, they have to act like jerks when they can't handle their own feelings...

Boys don't get mad about that statement, cuz I do the same thing....