I met someone on here a long time ago, and fought with him in a million emails, we just started talking again, and I think I may have feelings for him. It is long distance, and I am very unsure of my ability to have a long distance relationship...

Imput please....

Very hard but good luck anyways.

I've never had much luck with long distance relationships, but I suppose it varies from person to person.

Keep talkin and see how things go.......

You both have to WANT to have a relationship, first.

Then you both have to WANT it to be a long distance relationship.

Hopefully then you'll both WANT it to be much much closer someday.

BOL to you, Lily! (=

As long as someones willing to relocate, no reason it couldn't work out.

Ive tried to have a long distance relationship but I realized that I just cant do it. I need someone that I can touch. However it can work for some people. Goodluck

You're in love with a guy you fought with?..How does THAT happen?

Lily~ if you want this person to be in your life... you'll do whatever it takes. You need to meet in person to detrmine the depth and breadth of your feeings, then decide from there.

LDRs are hard work and I struggle with mine. Some days are better than others. I know it is a team effort and you must believe there is an end that you both desire, and work towards it in a supportive way.

im not even gonna go there!!

Some people bond that way

I already did a couple weeks ago when I came and stayed the weekend with you, remember? Didnt you tell Hellkitten about that?

because I have to care about someone or something to fight with or for it......

long distance sucks. Just because someone tries to come back into your life after they have been gone awhile doesnt mean they are now better for you. If you have been fighting before, you will fight again. That's bad, unless you like the drama of it and it keeps you interested. If that's the case, you're nuts anyway. Good luck.

any relationship is hard. its takes work. My LDR worked well until..it ended..lol. I could not afford it. and I felt I was not giving as much as he was to it so I broke it off.. Just know its not easy but if it is what the 2 of you want then go for it!!

it's tough but keep talking and see if it's something you want to pursue and if it's worth it- I have had a couple and the one I am currently in is working- we made a compromise and met in the middle- I was from Minnesota and he was in Alabama and he just moved here to St. Louis to be with me- it's all about communication and compromise- the first LDR I had cheated on me even after I was traveling every couple of weeks to be with him in AZ- the 2nd one is faithful and loyal and a lot like me-

Good luck

I understand what your saying Lily. Ive seen relationships start like that before. Its your personality type. Nuthin wrong with that.

Well I guess everyone knows now huh Lily?

knows what baby?