Topic: NEED HELP!!
Salemite's photo
Mon 03/31/08 01:48 PM



i did a thank you text though...he didn't reply...hope he doesn't ever.flowerforyou


AH! Then you win. Congratulations. You got to say what you feel AND you don't have to hear some lousy excuses or rationalizations.

i did hear a lil but once i text him that he just stopped texting.:smile: i just hope he suffers and pays for all he did to memad


I think you'll end up just fine. You're in the right place. There are tons of guys around here who will be happy to help you see not all of us are jerks.

BlueskyJ's photo
Mon 03/31/08 01:51 PM
Never chase after a guy that's not interested, your wasting your emotional time....

Retaliation? i believe we should aspire for kindness in any situation as that reflects upon your character...

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Mon 03/31/08 01:57 PM
i hope so too, but you know i've noticed that most guys on this site don't take it serious. or maybe i just wanna jump into falling in love too too fast huh?ohwell lil confused here, i guess cuz all of drama goin on in my life. maybe tomorrow will be a better day.:smile:

Salemite's photo
Mon 03/31/08 02:14 PM

i hope so too, but you know i've noticed that most guys on this site don't take it serious. or maybe i just wanna jump into falling in love too too fast huh?ohwell lil confused here, i guess cuz all of drama goin on in my life. maybe tomorrow will be a better day.:smile:


Could be some of each. Could be that some guys aren't taking anything too seriously here. Could be that you're wanting to move too fast (for them). Could be all of the above.

If you're really thinking you might be wanting to fall in love too quickly, that might very well be true. Might be worth some self-examination as far as why.

But now might not be the best time. You're going through a rough patch right now and that will color your self-perceptions. Take some time, live your life, spend some time just being you and when things are "better", maybe take a look to see why you feel as you do.

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Mon 03/31/08 02:22 PM
i agree. lately i've left myself in second or even third place, trying to please everyone else. what bout me?huh

azard7's photo
Mon 03/31/08 02:32 PM
masturbate profusely

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Mon 03/31/08 02:38 PM
might need some inspiration got none at the moment...frown

Salemite's photo
Mon 03/31/08 02:42 PM

might need some inspiration got none at the moment...frown


You're on the internet, isn't that what it's made for?

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Mon 03/31/08 02:50 PM
@ work so cant do much.frown

Salemite's photo
Mon 03/31/08 02:54 PM

@ work so cant do much.frown


This too shall pass.

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Mon 03/31/08 02:55 PM
yeah frown i really hope so ohwell

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Mon 03/31/08 03:47 PM

I'm trying to, i'm @ work but it just seems impossible.sad

tell me about it i know how you feel. despite my best efforts I can not, stop thinking about her....but...i am getting better as time passes i don't think about her as much..

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Mon 03/31/08 03:51 PM
when did all this happen to you?
me just over the weekend so its pretty fresh still.:cry:

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Mon 03/31/08 03:57 PM

i hope so too, but you know i've noticed that most guys on this site don't take it serious. or maybe i just wanna jump into falling in love too too fast huh?ohwell lil confused here, i guess cuz all of drama goin on in my life. maybe tomorrow will be a better day.:smile:
quite frankly I think thats been my problem I like that felling of pure companionship i don't know i just do. I love being in love it's awesome, but alot of people tend to confuse it with lust

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Mon 03/31/08 03:59 PM

when did all this happen to you?
me just over the weekend so its pretty fresh still.:cry:
last week yeah so is mine

Salemite's photo
Mon 03/31/08 04:09 PM

when did all this happen to you?
me just over the weekend so its pretty fresh still.:cry:


Go hit the club this weekend. Don't go looking for a guy, or looking to get hooked up. Just go have fun.

Salemite's photo
Mon 03/31/08 04:10 PM


i hope so too, but you know i've noticed that most guys on this site don't take it serious. or maybe i just wanna jump into falling in love too too fast huh?ohwell lil confused here, i guess cuz all of drama goin on in my life. maybe tomorrow will be a better day.:smile:
quite frankly I think thats been my problem I like that felling of pure companionship i don't know i just do. I love being in love it's awesome, but alot of people tend to confuse it with lust


Are you comfortable with being alone, or do you feel like you "need" someone?

AllSmilesInTulsa's photo
Mon 03/31/08 04:14 PM


If he hurt you why do you want to forget him so quickly? I'd think a few good long days to remember what he did to you would be just cause to get over him. You need things to take your heart off your sleeve... volunteer your time in a shelter or food bank, visit the elderly in a nursing home and read to them.... bring balloons to kids in the pedairic ward of the hospital. You know... remember there is always someone out there who has it worse than you... if that is in front of you then it is sorta hard to feel sorry for yourself.

true i might just need to have those thoughts on for a while, loosing him would be the best @ the end.


I agree.
You need to take the time to mourn the loss of the relationship.

TheShadow's photo
Mon 03/31/08 04:17 PM

Need advice on how to forget an asshole!!:cry:
He went w/some blonde wanna be fat ***** whose a coke addict; its really hurting me, I really had true feelings for him! How can I forget bout' him quickly?! HELP PLEASE!


You don't forget about him. You face your situation and look at whats the best thing for you to take care of yourself. There is no quick fix in life. if we want to grow, we have to learn how to dela with our feelings.....

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Mon 03/31/08 04:18 PM
i personally n honestly hate being lonely.
but those are my plans im just gonna party like theres no tomorrow w/friends this weekend. no hookups or dates. see what happens.:tongue: