Topic: can you help me?
Amalie's photo
Mon 03/31/08 08:36 AM
Just say Amalie you are freaking out!! devil
Well I am talking to now seeing someone! I really like him. but here is the deal. we saw each other Friday, Saturday and Sunday. He works nights and obviously sleeps during the day. I work during the day and sleep nights. Well when he left my place yesterday he told me tht he would call me and he did not. Perhaps he did not want to wake me, knowing me and my daughter were asleep. Well I tried to call him this morning like I usually do and he has not answered any of my calls but has checked his e-maila nd my space. I met him on a different dating site and he has check that mail too. Maybe he is just asleep, and everything is ok. I am not usually 1 to be so dang clingy but i really like this 1. I dont want to run him off but what do I do??sad
Please help.

rodfcutler's photo
Mon 03/31/08 08:40 AM
Patience is always the best policy.If he really likes you,then he will get back in touch when he is able too!
Things will happen as they are meant to happen,and nothing will ever change that concept!:wink:

csi1994's photo
Mon 03/31/08 08:41 AM
Don't be clingy....give him space and see where things go.

krazykitty323's photo
Mon 03/31/08 08:41 AM
give it somw time. Maybe he had a lot on his schedule today

brimstone's photo
Mon 03/31/08 08:43 AM
well, if you usually call him in the morning, he would have been expecting that. Perhaps just resting. But if you have sent emails to all the places you can and still no reaction...huh

Best thing to do right now is wait it out I think...Maybe he is afraid of making a commitment...but wants to. I know that for me, I have to take some time to myself when I reach the point of commiting...it's a very scary thing...especially if you've been hurt...and who hasn't?

Give him some space...I think it will be ok. drinker

froglittlesis's photo
Mon 03/31/08 08:46 AM

Patience is always the best policy.If he really likes you,then he will get back in touch when he is able too!
Things will happen as they are meant to happen,and nothing will ever change that concept!:wink:

hellkitten54's photo
Mon 03/31/08 08:47 AM
Yep, quit freaking out. Just give it time.

shoesmonkey's photo
Mon 03/31/08 08:49 AM
As we women are told, men will back up at point's. Let up on him. Allow him to come to you when he is ready.

brimstone's photo
Mon 03/31/08 08:54 AM

As we women are told, men will back up at point's. Let up on him. Allow him to come to you when he is ready.


Exactly. He's probably just creating a back up point to which he can restore his system files should the new changes not work out...:tongue:

After three wonderful days together...he will always be able to go back to that point and remember them fondly. :wink:

Amalie's photo
Mon 03/31/08 08:59 AM
Thanks!!
In other words.. take a chill pill and get to work. huh! I can do that.
Just hate to let a good 1 get away!!

brimstone's photo
Mon 03/31/08 09:06 AM

Thanks!!
In other words.. take a chill pill and get to work. huh! I can do that.
Just hate to let a good 1 get away!!



Exactly my dear. He'll come around. :wink:

Amalie's photo
Mon 03/31/08 09:07 AM
hope so!!