we betray and we are beeing betrayed, it is life, we need to be very strong in life we should not be selfish and we need to forgive because no one is perfect, and love is simply sex, and sex is not a betrayal. Betrayal is when you have a family and kids and you forget about your responsibility as a wife, mother, husband or father. Lets forgive others, and don't judge them. It is difficult but it is the way to go in the right direction.

There is no love, there is just sex. What we call love is just responsibility and respect. If you are responsable and have respect to the person you are having sex with (or relationship even withouit sex) you will never tell them you do not love them, you will never cheat on them. But the real reason for the relationship is sex, the insinct. In order to get what we want we say we love, we lie to ourselves and our partners. The other lie there is just one woman for one man. There thousands men for a woman and vice versa. I will confess I love almost all nice women I met,and I would like to have sex with all of them even at once, I am not 20 years old anymore but I am the same as I was 20 years ago. So I think I will never change.