The Modern Man

Having Sex With a Single Mother
by Dan Bacon

Are Single Mothers Easy to Pick Up?

Generally speaking, there is less competition to date and have a relationship with a single mother than other women, because most men don't want to pay to raise another man's child or have to deal with the "other man" in her life. Since there is less competition, single mothers usually don't play as hard to get as a typical woman, so yes, it is often easier to pick up a single mom.

This is not to say that all single mothers are an "easy lay" or desperately looking to jump into a serious relationship immediately. Many single mothers are intelligent, savvy women who just happened to accidentally get pregnant to a boyfriend, or who had a child with a guy who didn't turn out to be the right man after all. So, don't look at these women as though they are any less special, smart of deserving of your respect than other women are. Single moms are usually just the same as other women, except they are plus one. When you meet a single mother, the same rules of attraction apply and she will looking to see if you're a confident alpha male who will be a great boyfriend and lover or a nervous, insecure, shy guy who is hoping to get lucky.

Be Honest About Your Intentions

That said, there are some single mothers who definitely want "just sex" or who just a replacement father figure or even someone to help pay her bills. If she doesn't mention her children until later in the conversation and, for all intents and purposes, acts as though she is single, then she's probably just looking to have a one night stand or casual relationship with you.

Once you know her intentions and you have determined what you want, you can take it from there. Suggesting that a single mother join you at your place for a drink (or head to her house to let the babysitter go home) will result in a "Yes" more often than other women who aren’t in as much of a rush to find a guy. If she says, "No" just remind her of how difficult it is for her to have free time like she has that night and suggest that she just have some fun. Most women will then happily act on that suggestion and open themselves up to having a fun, one night stand with you.

Dealing With Her Ex

When in a relationship with a single mother, you will have to deal with an ex-boyfriend or ex-husband at some stage. After all, someone fathered her child. As you get deeper into the relationship, you should anticipate that her children eventually will become a part of your life as well. If you can handle not being the center of her world and are secure enough and willing to deal with all that comes along with dating a single mother, then you just may find that the rewards of finding your perfect woman – baggage and all – is worth all of the extra effort you have to put into the relationship.

Mariah

Now this lady understands a guys point of view and her own

If they used a barrier they would not be a single mom

The internet macho men step up to the plate. Listen fellows put your signature on that marriage certificate and prove how macho you are to all. Plenty of single moms to pick from.

Here are the hot spots for single moms:
Washington, D.C. had the highest percentage of women with a birth in the previous year who were unmarried (51 percent), followed closely by Louisiana (49 percent), Mississippi (48 percent) and New Mexico (48 percent). The states with the lowest percentages were Utah (15 percent) and New Hampshire (20 percent).

The metro areas with the highest rates of births to unmarried women were Flagstaff, Ariz. (74.6 percent); Greenville, N.C. (69.4 percent); Lima, Ohio (67.5 percent); Myrtle Beach-North Myrtle Beach-Conway, S.C. (67.4 percent); Danville, Va. (67.3 percent). At the other end of the spectrum were Provo-Orem, Utah (8.2 percent); Kennewick-Pasco-Richland, Wash.(12.2 percent); Bremerton-Silverdale, Wash. (12.5 percent); and Lake Havasu City-Kingman, Ariz. (12.7 percent).

Source:NYT

You made your choices as I have and now both of us have to live with them.

Im quite happy with my choices you are a slave to yours

As a battle weary veteran of marriage, dating and what life bring about. I can say with conviction that no real man wants to take on a ready made family.

The Cuban guy in blue shirt might like the idea but it might be his cultural upbringing or something. If you want kids make your own don't wait for the village stud to do it for you

I have been married and didn't want kids with the responsibility and aggravation that comes with them. Have been in numerous LTR with women without kids. Now just trying to keep my life simple by not getting involved with women that have kids.

You can uncomplicated a relationship by avoiding things like kids or a woman with emotional scars from prior life.

Give yourself some time to learn this

No matter what you say Im not going to rush out and marry a woman with kids. Didn't breed them and don't want to feed them.

I follow the KISS principle:

Keep It Stupid Simple

Empty promises is like masturbation

A good cook with a tight *****

Maybe the mom is Maury Povich material and needs a DNA test to figure out who the real father is. You know they all look alike in the dark

Who would date a single PREGNANT mom?

Single mom dating is more complex as you got the kid(s) the biological father and in some cases his family to deal with. If they have a teenager that is another problem in itself.

Is the drama worth it?

My friends second wife told me no matter how old the kids get they never totally leave you. She has 3 from prior marriage and he has none. Needless to say they caused some drama in their marriage.

Is it wise to date a single mom knowing that the kids will get in the way of the relationship? I hate it when you make reservations and they get blown away due to a kid problem. Am I being a selfish SOB or just should stay away from that situation?

Women my age scare me.

Just look at this thread and you will notice most don't have a pic and if they do its all blurred up. Ladies you can claim to be horny and all but if you don't get the guys attention it all goes to waste or to your favorite toy.

How many of you have cats?

Oops!

You rang? Hi

QWhat if it comes off at the wrong moment?

Don't know if this pic will come thru so here is the link as well

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