I'm 46 yes old is it too late to settle down again

The reason for both your problems, shyness & fear, is the lack of self-confidence. Did you read my post on this? I gave you a real life example to let you know that if I could do it so can you. Btw, I have been an adjunct professor, on & off, for the past 17 years. Most of my students are around your age. Many have/had your problem. I did help some of them overcome their shyness and/or fear. All you need is patience and the "I can do it" attitude. And dont forget, to become a successful actor, shyness & fear will never help.
Good luck and God bless.

laughing .. Bet they are round his ankles when he wakes up :-)

HAPPY BIRTHDAY!....ah dammit! See, I did it again.

I don't wonder, it is pretty easy to tell when someone is flirting with you. However my problem is I don't know how to respond to it.

For example:
Girl "Says something flirtatious"
Me...............high five!

Speaking personally, i can't even say that i am a hairless ape, lol! I mean, if you go deep enough into the idea of evolution, you see that we are related to tress and bacteria and all life. If you look into gene expressions, you find people change based on how their genes are expressed in a certain environment. This is why environment is so important for drug addicts. If yo see that all life shares so much of the same genetics, you'd see that human life is just a different expression of a similar genetic shared by animals and living, even tress. Some genetics are snipt or pruned by time and death, and so different things fit different environments. The real hunk of evolution, and i do not know if any evolutionists are thinking this, but most of evolution is not in a mutation or genetic material shift. That does happen, but the majority is an interaction with the environment. These genes are activated when organism is here and not there. You know that they have taken fish and out them in heavy water (water with more neutrons or a greater isotope number, so just more mass) ans they get a silver stripe? The DNA always had that stripe there, it just wasn't activated. If you don't believe in evolution, just do yoga and watch yourself begin to change. It may take a while, it may not, but yoga and spiritual methods are the best tool for humans to experience further evolution. They are the main cultivators of evolution in the human race.

Also, evolution is more active during one life and death event, during one organism's lifespan. This really isn't trackable with current skill in fossil record mapping or technology. If science wants to better support evolution ideas, it must be able to see the shift that happens in the genetics in one single life from birth to death, or in small intense changes within few generations. Unfortunately, people don't any longer know how to change their genetics like they used to. I would guess that family used to mean more than it currently does, that ancestors many generations before and after this one were thought about, this because the people knew how to watch and change the genetic material in ways they can manage by lifestyle and location. That is simply a thinking and understanding lost to the modern man.

what do u think??? curiosity strike... :D