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Wed 04/15/09 11:54 PM
Oh and by the way this topic was not from me but from my philosophy teacher and almost every comment you people said I brought up with her. Its funny how we all think the same. good night and sleep tight

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Wed 04/15/09 11:51 PM
Ok so im going to be with this from you fine people:

Happiness is a state of mind

To be content is to be happy

Someone always has it worse than you (cliche)

God has all the answers

An exception to a concept is everything no matter how rediculous

Deserve means entitled

That one girl has a crush on Mark

well Ill try to sleep now good convo people Ill try to bring something confrintational again to see how upset people can get and how driven people become on emotion

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Wed 04/15/09 11:46 PM
and of course thier are exceptions to rules but it not good enough for a rebuddle. read my last sentence carfully what do you derive from that? also, again age is meaningless for valitaty so dont bring it up. being older doesnt mean you have more experences in life. Paris hilton is older than me should I look to her for advice on happiness?

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Wed 04/15/09 11:42 PM

Plainspoken here..and these people will tell you i am very well educated. But i'm going to lay this on the table.

Look Man..you're only 21 y/o..most of us twice your age..As Skynrd said "i know a lil bout love, and baby i can guess the rest" You have a whole life ahead of you..me...well i'm a dinosaur..most of mine is over. Now..i don't normally post in topics like this. But you would do well to listen to some of the advice given.

Please don't think these fine people are out to belittle you. They are trying to tell you things..it would be wise to hear them out.

You asked for answers..these are good people. be well,

Mark


tell that to the angry woman above you and trust me I do take in what you people are saying. And again I will say this over and over I AM NEUTRAL IN THIS MATTER I SIMPLE WANT ANSWERS SO STOP ATTACKING ME

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Wed 04/15/09 11:41 PM

God is able to give perfect peace

and joy

and rest.


All we have to do is ask Him to....and He Will
flowerforyou



Dont get me started with the god topic

no proof of his or her or its existance

buttt no proof of its non existance to

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Wed 04/15/09 11:40 PM


Who deserved happiness??? Deserve means hardship that you must go through to earn. So whos to say that anyone who has happiness now has ever gone through enough hardship to deserve it? Beautiful people are born with good looks. Catered all thier lives with women or men based on physical apperance even with a lack luster personality. Do they go through any hardships to deserve anything. Maybe Im a little drunk but the stance still holds true. Thier is no real happiness to those who truly deserve it.
So what makes you more deserving than anyone else? I mean truly, no one DESERVES anything. You get what you earn. You get what you put out. If you run around being pissed off because you're not getting something you feel entitled to... that's kinda your fault. Just because someone is beautiful doesn't mean they are happy and been catered to their whole lives. Deserve means entitled. You're entitled to nothing in this world. And even when someone "deserves" something, it doesn't mean they get. Who are you to imply that "beautiful" people don't endure hardships in life? You make it seem like you're the only one that has gone thru hard times. So I ask you... what makes you anymore "deserving" than anyone else? Beauty doesn't decide happiness. YOU decide how happy you will or won't be. It seems to me you have chosen to be unhappy.


jeeeez whys someone bring something to the table that brings some conflict and everyone crucifies him. Whos to say that I mean that I deserve him please read some of my replies before you go for my throat

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Wed 04/15/09 11:33 PM



Grasshopper was not meant in an age condescending manner...it's a wisdom thing... I used to feel the same way...ripped off, everyone else has it so good, and I have to do it so tough.

I had to change my oulook, to change my life.

I had, and have it just perfect, for me.

Age is irrelevant, attitude is everything.




you just hit the nail on the head attitude aka self perception on the same reality. hmmmmmm can you force yourself to have a positive attitude?



negative in...negative out

positive in...positive out
flowerforyou


hmmmm so im left with ..... logic?

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Wed 04/15/09 11:30 PM
ok ok ok i think people lost track to what i was trying to bring up. First off appreciation of what you have does fall under the catagory of contention. I think Im trying to stress happiness in a sence that its like tunnel vision where it forces upon you a positive attitude without work and to those who achive this usually dont deserve it.

Please try not to judge me and my contention of my life on this I simply want to understand this..

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Wed 04/15/09 11:25 PM



My Daddy told me...

"Happiness is a state of mind". It is. Until you can be happy with yourself..then you can't be happy with someone else. Why subject what you supposedly love..or want to love, with your own insecurities? Not meaning that in a smart azz way..but that is indeed reality, imho.



Yes, if one is never satisfied, and always "searching" for something bigger or better, they will and can never be truly happy. Time and experience makes one learn what they can achieve different levels of contentment with, and strive for higher happiness with what really matters.


your comment is redudant you said if you strive for more you cant be happy but experences make you strive for more?

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Wed 04/15/09 11:22 PM

Grasshopper was not meant in an age condescending manner...it's a wisdom thing... I used to feel the same way...ripped off, everyone else has it so good, and I have to do it so tough.

I had to change my oulook, to change my life.

I had, and have it just perfect, for me.

Age is irrelevant, attitude is everything.




you just hit the nail on the head attitude aka self perception on the same reality. hmmmmmm can you force yourself to have a positive attitude?

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Wed 04/15/09 11:20 PM


My Daddy told me...

"Happiness is a state of mind". It is. Until you can be happy with yourself..then you can't be happy with someone else. Why subject what you supposedly love..or want to love, with your own insecurities? Not meaning that in a smart azz way..but that is indeed reality, imho.



Im actually re reading your comment over and over I really do like it

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Wed 04/15/09 11:19 PM


My Daddy told me...

"Happiness is a state of mind". It is. Until you can be happy with yourself..then you can't be happy with someone else. Why subject what you supposedly love..or want to love, with your own insecurities? Not meaning that in a smart azz way..but that is indeed reality, imho.


goddd best rebuttle thus far!!!

your fathers a smart man but why cant you be happy with someone else? isent someone suppose to bring you happiness? (meaning lovers and companions)

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Wed 04/15/09 11:17 PM


its funny, Im not actually miserable I simply want to experence the world, this was just a block on my path. It interesting to see how people become defensive on this subject. Yet sigh again seeing how the only argument against this is the world is good you should stop being sad blah blah. Give me something good to combat this I would appreciate it.



try an anti depressant, and stay off the alcohol.



again im not sad in any way, just curious on human perception on happiness

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Wed 04/15/09 11:16 PM

if you spend your time focussing on everyone else's seemingly happiness... and contentment, you miss out on discovering your own.

learn grasshoppper, learn yourself... and from that you will discover what happiness and contentment is.



grasshopper?? dont think cause of age you have experenced any more than i have you have no idea who ive been through

and its funny cause I am actually content

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Wed 04/15/09 11:15 PM
its funny, Im not actually miserable I simply want to experence the world, this was just a block on my path. It interesting to see how people become defensive on this subject. Yet sigh again seeing how the only argument against this is the world is good you should stop being sad blah blah. Give me something good to combat this I would appreciate it.

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Wed 04/15/09 11:10 PM
lolz advice? who said anything about advice. content simply means you lower your standards to become comfortable with the situation. Content is depressing beacause it removes drive and ambition

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Wed 04/15/09 11:08 PM
try try try try and gaining experence. you would think you would learn to either give up or be content. So is that life you try and try and try and try, is that all we can sucome to at this point? and that still doesnt answer my question of deserving it and why some people live so easy while other have to keep on trying

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Wed 04/15/09 11:06 PM
but we are told happiness is everlasting and content is just simply depressing. So if your just happy with your currrent situtation then isent that depressing cause you want to have this everlasting happiness we see everywhere

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Wed 04/15/09 11:01 PM
just a general conception of happiness not meaning content of the situtation your in

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Wed 04/15/09 10:57 PM
yes but can you try so many times or try so hard but stil fail does that make it work? Or in the end the end result is stil falure?