Katsup & Baked Potatos

Not a bad idea. Only one problem. I'm going into Tax season. But perhaps I will when summer gets here again.

only if you'll drive it to Kentucky

I don't really go out to bars or clubs (don't like to drink). And I don't go to church. What else can I do to meet new people?

Well not quite, but near enough! Anyone out there?

hard to feel attractive when you weight over 200 pounds. (204.5)

I know I don't look like it, but it's true...and I feel it.

Still I've actually lost ten pounds, and the other day I was just dancing through the restaurant. I can look in the mirror and actually see a figure (not a blob).

I think that it comes back to what was said earlier...good things take time.

Good advise, and a perfect example of why i'm more than a little hesitant!

Frankly, if I knew he was the one, I probably wouldn't wait that long.

Another reason why I want to wait, is that i know myself. If he smiles a me, i'll swoon and swear it's love. Stupid! I know. But i just don't get THAT many smiles.

I figured, if I wait, and not run after every guy I see, then I'll know that he's genuinely interested. Only one problem with that line of thinking....no one is interested!

-screams in frustration-

Thanks for that. Don't have alot of pics of me...will see what I can do.

I'm joining a volunteer committee for the Habitat for Humanity in two weeks. But I'm an accountant, and I'm going into tax season. Avoiding a 'routine' is hard. From Jan - Apr my live is almost completely work and sleep!

you are a hoot longhair!

I know I need to improve it further, what are your suggestions?

Ok, then jumping topic...how does one go about finding someone?

Also - working on profile. Will let you know when I'm done. Feed back would be great.

I'd be only too glad to! If I can find someone. So I guess that's why i'm here.

No I totally understand what you are saying.

And to be truthful, I've often thought of changing tactics. But there are so many dirtbags (not steriotyping...just being honest) around here. That abstinace always seems like the best option.

Plus I'm from the bible belt, it is hard to have a good relationship with someone and not seem like a whore. I don't go to church never have, probably never will. I'm not looking for a 'bible thumping' guy who think anything beyond holding hands is a sin. That's why I broke up with my last guy. He loved church more than me.

But I'm 23, never gone anywhere close to sex...and now I'm worried about getting into some deep trouble. Plus I'm overweight. So any quy who looks my way (generally speaking) is only seeing one useful thing. Guys around here are so shallow, they don't understand the value of a good conversation!

*sorry just venting steam*

So when I say I'm waiting...well then I seem stuck up and non-flexible. It's a no win situation. - or well that's just how it seems

Okay then. The cat it is! She really is adorable.


Love the dogs by the way!

good advise all the way around. Thank you so much. I'm not trying to be judgemental (sp?). And honestly, I'd be really happy for a date. So I guess I'll just wait and see what happens. Who knows I could meet mister right, and totally change my mind.

Thanks everyone

PS. as to pics, I don't have alot of me. would a picture of ...say... my cat be a problem.

Gone for lunch. Be back in an hour.

Fair quesiton. I've always said 'not before marriage'. Most guys just don't understand that. My ex was great, he felt the same way. But now I'm stuck feeling like he was the only one who will ever understand. I'd rather stay single then get back with him. But truthfull, I just don't know how to find someone who will understand. HELP

I am NOT looking for sex. I've always said that would have to wait. But most guys expect that. How can I find someone who is willing to wait?

Any advice welcome.

Greetings. Nice to see someone from Kentucky. what do you think of this weather we are having?