Gentlemen mean nothing to women now. If you don't have the appearance,nothing else matters. And for your kind information, beauty standards are getting higher with every passing day.
I can tell you a story of myself. Sometime ago, I was sitting in a metro when I saw a struggling pregnant woman standing next to me. Just out of compassion, I gave my seat to her. After sometime when I was looking in other direction, the sit next to her became empty but she hurriedly placed her bag over it so that I cannot sit. Sometimes later, when a good looking guy came over there looking for a seat she took the bag and gave the seat to that guy to sit. When she noticed that I was seeing all her actions, she just shook her head and ignored me. I used to be gentle and kind for so long, but after getting nothing in return whatsoever I've decided to not help anyone in the future, especially females.