Actually, physical attraction is pretty important. It's illogical to think that one shouldn't care about looks when considering a romantic relationship. Obviously, looks shouldn't be the only reason or anything, but looks do matter. The good thing is that beauty/attractiveness is subjective.

Women tend to have self-esteem/self-image issues as it is, adding weight issues doesn't help, but more importantly, is how she handles those issues. I can't be with a woman that needs constant reassurance that I want to be with her, or that I find her attractive, no matter what body type or weight she is. But, if she has a rocking body, and knows it, IDGAF how much she weighs as long as she knows she's rocking.