I am bored so I decided to bring this back up. I KNOW there is WAY more hiney touchness hotness out there!

I would go up to him and grab him by the balls HARD and not let go until I said, "NOW you WILL come clean to my friend or the next time I grab these they will be ripped off and I will tell her myself."

Then I will squeeze them harder before letting go and walking away.

Thank you Jess. I will do that. It will help her see the things as well. I really like that.

Yea figured I needed to make things bigger for you so you can read it.

Made you think what? That I care more about her computer then a over controlling guy? If so, then you really need to get to know me. Because buddy you are FAR from being correct. Really has NOTHING to do with her computer. Like I said, just an example. I guess you also did not read the fact that he is ALWAYS AROUND so there for yes I would have to sneak a couple of minutes to talk to her about how I feel. Give me a f*cking break.

Hmmm if MAYBE you took the time to read ALL the post you would see that I did say that I was just using that as ONE example.

OK, so I phoned her up and we talked for what seemed like a very long time. She was actually very understanding and said that she was actually seeing it as well, then she promised me that she would talk to him tonight about it. Then we are meeting for lunch tomorrow to continue the conversation.

I guess I just do not want to lose her again. I mean I already lost her once to a guy. Then She told me the horror stories about it. I felt totally helpless. I just do not want to see it happen again.

If I ever got two minutes alone with her then I would. Only time we really got to talk was online, and well now that is not possible. I could call her but know he will be right there listening to her end of the conversation.

Thank you Fran but I was just using that as one expample. there are so many other things I see that just keeps bringing her down. I mean yes sure I could sit back and watch. But I know how depressed she gets over men. And when there are children involved I just do not want to see it.

You really are not good at the whole friendship thing are you? I remember you telling me before to walk away from a friend that was in need.

And see that is how I see as well. Thank you. It is just so hard to sit and watch.

Never said that she was NOT being honest with me. I have known her like 16 years. Honesty is something that I know we have.

Love is blind. If that is all she is seeing then reality is that telling her something like that would like I said make her feel that she cannot come to me.

Well she did tell me that she would like me to look at it when he is not around. But the thing is he is ALWAYS around. So in reality I can see him getting her to take it in before I even get a chance to look at it. She stopped the argument yesterday by saying that she did not want to see her best friend and boyfriend arguing. I have already told myself as long as he is in her place I am not going over at all. I am there to visit my friend not some ******* that thinks he is better then anybody else.

See that is what I wanted to do yesterday was fix it. But the moment I sat infront of the thing he was like No leave it. We had a huge argument over it. I did not want the stress on my friend so I just walked away from it.

I want to tell my friend so bad that her boyfriend is a complete and udder douche. But at the same time I do not want to be the one to tell her. Because then I will end up being the friend that she feels like she cannot turn to when she has a problem.

I was there Sunday after noon until late last night. And the whole time I had to listen to his no-it-all attitude. Everything he says is right he is never wrong and is now about to cost my friend a bunch of money that I know she does not have. Her computer was messing up on her and I knew it was a simple fix. Something I could of had done in like 20 minutes. He sat on the computer for almost 2 hours doing who knows what to it. Not allowing me anywhere near it. Two hours of him working on it did not fix. I even offered him suggestions to how to fix it, and he would not listen to me at all. ended with him shutting the computer down and him telling my friend, a single mother with no job that she has to take her computer in and that it was unusable. Now she thinks she has to spend all this money to have it repaired. She has an Autistic son who's one quirck is the computer.

This is just one example. I cannot see somebody that I care about live like this. I am just not sure, should I tell her how I feel, or should I just sit back. But sitting back and watching my best and dearest friend is not something I think I can do.

Any suggestions at all?

Uh huh

Here he is with hair.

He is. But for some reason I prefure him with the shaved head look, then with hair.