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Wed 02/26/14 10:13 AM

To be honest, guys by nature are gonna be like that, but yeah - not ALL of them are, just find the one who is willing to wait for it and respects you enough to not push you into something.

thumbs up for u!

i have same comment wd Lisah, that's what i observe.. some guys wanted to discuss horny thing.. :(
but as u have said not all.. lets see and wait...

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Wed 02/26/14 10:11 AM

To be honest, guys by nature are gonna be like that, but yeah - not ALL of them are, just find the one who is willing to wait for it and respects you enough to not push you into something.

thumbs up for u!

i have same comment wd Lisah, that's what i observe.. some guys wanted to discuss horny thing.. :(
but as u have said not all.. lets see and wait...

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Sun 02/02/14 10:39 AM

Hello and welcome to our Looney Bin !!!

As you well know you are a Newbie here so it’s going to be a while till you feel like you fit in.
We will have people to assist you as you progress into the comfortable zone, Now while I have your attention if you need medication follow the yellow line it will take you to the Pharmacy where they will administer what you need.
We do have rules but they are really lax at the moment, If you will look around and see all the Loonies running loose you will understand what I am saying!!!!!
We have a lot of casual entertainment here for you, we have several bars and café's here for your entertainment EVEN one XXX rated. We have all kinds of game rooms you just have to choose the ones you will like to enter.
Now if you will follow the orderly he will be taking you to your room assignments and to the linen room to get your sheets and pillow cases.
After today you are on your own…… GOOD LUCK


HAVE A NICE STAY HERE AT MINGLE2

The Management !!!!

laugh laugh laugh


Hi' I know your new here, But check out the forums and just mingle around and post to the ones that interest you and before you know it you will have a lot of friends... Oh and just so you know there are a lot of Butt holes on all dating sites so you will just have to learn who's who !!!!! Good luck.... This is a really good site, Lots of really good people here !!!!


BOONEDOG



thanks for your hint and advice... :-)

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Sun 02/02/14 10:35 AM

Hey... I have read ur message and find lots of sense in it. Sorry u had to experience that with the mails. But its fine now.. Keep good and surely u will find something worth waiting for.


thanks Lisam for the courage ..

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Sun 02/02/14 10:35 AM

Hey... I have read ur message and find lots of sense in it. Sorry u had to experience that with the mails. But its fine now.. Keep good and surely u will find something worth waiting for.


thanks Lisam for the courage ..

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Sun 02/02/14 10:33 AM

hi how are u


hi! am fine thank you..

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Sun 02/02/14 10:33 AM

hi how are u


hi! am fine thank you..

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Fri 01/31/14 05:33 AM
Hi! its been awhile since i joined in this site ..my friend suggested me to register in this chating site..she said maybe i will find my especial someone here..i am not much active user,specially sometimes i got some rude ,inappropriate mails, therefore i dont get much interest of exploring this site..

now since i feel bored sitting alone n my home, i checked this forum section and i found good feedbacks and some got a lot of friends and some found their love one in here.

now i have decided to try to join this forum again and what i wanted first is to have some friends...

Hope i can find good friends here, and be lucky same as the others...

Please add me in your friends list and lets have some time to talk...

i really need a friend...


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Fri 01/31/14 05:02 AM
ops! i didn't know that dear word is a big deal ? maybe bcoz i used to hear that at my office.. its a big common word happy

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Thu 01/30/14 11:26 AM


hi.. my friend introduced me this site, and so far I dont find any guy serious in this site.. is there anyone knows any site that I can meet or chat with someone that is has a meaning and sense...?


i suggest you try the Forums you'll get to know & interact with people, share your thoughts and opinions. and you'll be assured your not dealing with scammers. and yes there are guys whom you can talk here with sense you'll just to be cautious. Welcome and Enjoy Mingle2!


thanks for ur reply and advise ..i will try to...

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Thu 01/30/14 11:24 AM
:-) thanks for ur reply.. thanks for the advise... well... let me try to do so... ;)

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Sat 01/18/14 06:50 AM
hi.. my friend introduced me this site, and so far I dont find any guy serious in this site.. is there anyone knows any site that I can meet or chat with someone that is has a meaning and sense...?

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Fri 01/11/13 09:12 AM



HOnestly trust is earned.
You will never be able to trust him as he has not earned it. He has repeatedly shown you that he is untrustworthy, find someone who will respect you and only want you, there are so many great men out there, dont waist your time on one who wasnt happy with just you.


Yeah there are so many men out there,,, but i hope there are still men that we can trust to..


IOLA, you have not answered my question. Did you marry the man whom you are complaining about?

If you did not marry him - if he is still legally single - then you are making the mistake of expecting him to act as if he were married to you.

If the man you are complaining about is your husband, then your complaint is reasonable.

If the man you are complaining about is not your husband, then you chose to play with fire and then became burned.

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Fri 01/11/13 05:36 AM



HOnestly trust is earned.
You will never be able to trust him as he has not earned it. He has repeatedly shown you that he is untrustworthy, find someone who will respect you and only want you, there are so many great men out there, dont waist your time on one who wasnt happy with just you.


Yeah there are so many men out there,,, but i hope there are still men that we can trust to..


IOLA, you have not answered my question. Did you marry the man whom you are complaining about?

If you did not marry him - if he is still legally single - then you are making the mistake of expecting him to act as if he were married to you.

If the man you are complaining about is your husband, then your complaint is reasonable.

If the man you are complaining about is not your husband, then you chose to play with fire and then became burned.


Not yet..were suppose to get married long time but I feel hesitant..
Anyways, what I understood with ur question nd comment is,,, ur trying to say that since he s not my husband yet then he has the right to cheat me..isn't it? Or u shud hav ask me if he is my boyfriend? Then if not then ur comment is right!!I don't think ur point of view is right!!! Even he is not my husband yet and as long as I love him I have d right! Coz we are in the relationship!

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Wed 01/09/13 03:05 AM

The thing is, people lie. People cheat. There is nothing that's going to stop them. So, why not just work with the situation? Take responsibility for your own happiness.

If he cheats and you don't know about it it won't have any effect on you at all. So, don't ask.


Sorry ha..if you believed people lies people cheat..then probably u r one of them..


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Wed 01/09/13 03:02 AM

HOnestly trust is earned.
You will never be able to trust him as he has not earned it. He has repeatedly shown you that he is untrustworthy, find someone who will respect you and only want you, there are so many great men out there, dont waist your time on one who wasnt happy with just you.


Yeah there are so many men out there,,, but i hope there are still men that we can trust to..

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Wed 01/09/13 02:59 AM


I have a relationship for 3 yrs during those years I always caught my partner having a text mate,chat mate, and even found out that he is meeting her. During those years I always forgive and accept him till we reached to the point that we fought physically. I love him very much that's why I always forgive him even he always hurt me. But he never saw that. He didn't appreciate. He took me for granted! He is over confident because he knows how much I love him. He is trying to get me back but the problem is, I loss the trust!

How to trust again?



Trust is very hard to get back, when a guy has done you wrong. Especially, if it's the same guy wanting your trust all over again. Not sure if you will ever be able to trust him, once trust is lost. A new guy could gain more trust from you, as he hasn't had a chance to show you he can't be faithful. As we all know, people put on facades. If he's cheated on you, then I reckon you could be friends with him again, but be in a relationship with him? Slim chance because he sleeps with others. You both physically fight, too, during arguements. That sounds quite volatile and violent at best. You don't want to be with a guy who beats you just because you argue about something. Though, YOU also need to stop hitting HIM in any arguement, too. I actually am a bit surprised that him physically punching you, didn't force you to want to leave him. That it wasn't scary enough for you to decide to pack your bags and run to safety. I'd have left him, if he was some nutter wanting to show physically tough he was. Reminds me of my biological father. Good job my mum got away, and took me with her. Some situations need fleeing from, no matter how much you may love someone. Sometimes the ones closest to us, will hurt us the most, ironic, but I have been there ;)


you are right... that is the most hurting me..to know the guy who love you but he beats you! its ok what i need to do now is to be strong..i should give him a chance again..to be in safe to be in peaceful life... :wink:

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Wed 01/09/13 02:51 AM

Trust, Communication, & Appreciation are 3 big things in a relationship. I wouldnt give him another chance, that is his loos & he needs to learn from his mistakes. Only insecurity with ones self would someone EVER put up with that. I know that i wouldnt. If someone is determined to make it work i guess he would have to prove himself that he is worthy of trusting again. Goodluck to you :)


Correct! thanks dear... if he wants me to trust him again he should do the effort and prove to me that he is worth to trust...

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Tue 01/08/13 11:18 AM

You should not trust that person again.


Yeah u r right! Specially I've given him a chance several times!


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Tue 01/08/13 11:11 AM

Don,t sell yourself short. By being a push over and always taking him back you are letting him have his cake and eat it too.
Dump the jerk and move on.Its not working for you and never will.


Yeah u r right.. I'm trying to move on..

But the question is..,?

HOw to trust Again? Is there any man in this world that u can trust to?

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