a false profile with Kim Kardashian's photo. of course I matched with her

in fact, I have found even the masters of the topics, have stated that they are only on this site as to moderate the posts, rather than to meet someone. reminds me of singles dances; there's aways a few couples who were in fact married. they'll tell you, it's they enjoy the company of the friends they made. truth is, they didn't do any one any favors. you can't dance with them, unless you are part of their little click, and you damn sure are not going to be able to hit on them.

as my topic was rate me really? I was not even close to asking about being rated. I never asked to be rated neither. and for saying that if you want to be rated and rated you will be, I call BS. only arrogant profiles would be picked apart. if Sadie001, 72 posted, I will bet money all her responses will be positive. "Roast Me" and "Rate me" are two different beasts. you can try to read between my lines, or misquote me and the points I made are still the same. what is it, don't like some one else coming to the party?

yes and no; mocking people who "roast me" memes. if you take a look, you'll see what i mean. these posts are plain evil. no one is secure from the roasting. as it applies here, do you not think that rate me's risk having their feelings hurt? visions of school bulliies and meanies come to mind. or do you have no issue with some one purposely attacking you since you , out of good faith, asked to be rated? i am talking about human nature. the ladies asked for different photos, i changed mine around. i just wince when i see people acting in a manner not being nice. maybe i am wrong, folks here give accolades for everyone on rate me. BUT life is not pretty, hence my words

i never asked nor did i want to be rated. i only wished to say i found it amusing like that of the people who ask to be roasted. again, most of us, don't want to be publicly humiliated. even if it's jest. i believe, in our quest for attention, many people might wish to be rated; you would have to have a thick skin. now i doubt one would be attacked per se, alas, this is not a place with delicate feeling.

women can play hard to get, be aloof and pretty much ask for the man to beg. we have done this since the beginning of time. bottom line, you can discard the proofs, it's all the same, women know that they have what men want. so lets turn the game around. i am not a stud bull, nor will i be a sucker for the same game over and over. i can and do say NO; that alone keeps women confused, "hey, he took it away from me". just like you know, men at my age group and older, are few and far between, its a fact. i get hundreds of likes all day long. 90% are scammers, other 10% i have to weed thru. no one likes being rejected, so i don't go begging for likes. i am here for my future. as in everything else, time is on my side. just grabbing the first woman who comes along, is not a option. like yourself i am sure you have been down this road before. against what you think, i have plenty of offers. we all have our differences, and this is me. as for smiling; my teeth are not pearly whites, parents when i was you could not afford the help i should have had, my sister was the same. i smile for people, i just don't have many of me smiling. sorry.

there are two sides to every story, I like sitting at the bar, drinking a plain Coke, whilst drunken women hit on me. after a few hours, I get ready to leave, and the now very drunk and horny lady, who has made it perfectly clear to enjoy the rest of the night together, I walk away the better man. I can and do say no.

adies, this post will appeal to both men and women, but as i am a man, it's geared to you. PLEASE FOR GOD'S SAKE, QUIT USING FILTERS! it may be fine for 20's yo, but when 40-50 yo's use them, it's just plain stupid. you might feel cute when your grand daughter takes you photo that way, but being men are visual creatures, hiding your face behind filters, generally means you are hiding something. on that note, men and women both, quit taking photos were your face, fills the frame. we all know hat you are hiding, but come on, 15 pictures of your duck lips or ultra dark goth look. ladies, a bit of make up please, and men and women both, get out of your PJ's and bed for God's sake. just how would you appear in your wedding. just my two cents

if so, so what? men are attracted to LOOKS, good genes and money. we are visual, looks are what catches our eyes. period. both sexes would like to have a attractive mate. i know i do. good genes; women and men, instinctually want our offspring to be strong and healthy, keeps the good bloodlines flowing. period. money? again, our instincts look to provide and be provided safety and shelter for our selves and our children. period. short term goals, like sex and material desires, are superficial. as for power, in men's goals, women are attracted to that, the alpha male gets the best.

your fear of not having all the things women "WANT" leads you to have childish fears.

this reminds me of the famous " roast me" memes. deep down, we want to be liked, but putting your profile out for being graded, will find a way to hurt you. we are all behind a screen, there are plenty of people who don't care if they hurt you. at times it seems we haven't left middle school, trying to make the most friends with the opposite sex as possible. not all of us can be the home coming king and queen

personally, when I have been coming to the forum, I see all kinds of people who think that rude behavior is still a good idea. and that goes both ways, but of course, the women with suggestive profiles are usually some dude in a third world country trying to find a way to take your money

you folks act like real person are filling out the profiles. if a real man or woman were doing it, they would do their best to describe their selves, as to present them selves in the best light. fakes have no interest in dressing up the profile, get it in quickly and see what you can catch.

then, if they get the green light, you get to bring her here. you have then 90 days to marry. if things don't work out, YOU have to pay to send her back. the government is not going to chase them down. but if and when they would have to get any important papers, they will need to get a lawyer to try and stay there. she will get a 90 day green card. the clock starts now, and you both will be working to get the citizenship. that costs money and lawyer fees. all of this is time and money. there is no love you long time girls, so don't bother thinking you can just bring someone over. we are not the only country that people want to go to, so get off your high horse. people want and need love. it's quite the test, and thousands of people are successful in it. with out people coming here, many of us, would never be born. my two cents

I knew that there are folks who have painful or negative thoughts on this issue. I have been down that path before, except with eastern european women. if there's any kind of real connection, the process to make her mine, is long and fraught with doubt. now I am taking about her still being overseas. you have to go to her. show proof that you were there, and solidify that this is what both of you want. most men and women who list profiles, would like to leave their home. keep in mind, this is just that. what would you do, if you knew leaving here is your only option? you file a K-1 visa. this can take years, putting a strain on a fragile relationship. it's designed to be this way. during WW2, Vietnam, and so on, troops would try to bring home brides. the military frowned on this, as if things went south, the government was saddled with more people. the fiance will go through all kinds of back ground and health checks. it's quite demanding.

thousands of years ago, when we were hunter gathers, women sought the company of the best man, as he would protect her, provide her with the best genes, and the shelter he provides. want proof?, well, you are here, aren't you?. granted, here in the western world, some women, claim they don't need a man. more power to them. like vegans, every one needs to know. this show of power, is a false guise, and she still will have needs. those kind of people are too special to be here. so we won't bother with them. both sexes reward the other for positive activities, as well as with holding any rewards. look up tasmanian devils; watch videos of their sex activities. that's true, raw sex. we cannot deny the past. passion is what drives us, man or woman, not just sex

sorry folks,"men" are sexual animals, period. women have needs as well, just they know how to suppress them, or were taught that sex was dirty. we all crave to have the passion we once or hope to have again. passion is not sex; the animals in us, a woman feels being taken by a man she desires, letting down her defenses, offers to the man, while feeling he is in control, a king of his own house, the fact that she hasn't yielded anything but pure passion, which is what we wanted anyway.