well you still need to be with your friends once in awhile or you will end up resenting her and the baby......

How often do you hang out with the guys each week?

k theres ur problem take her out everyonce in a while.. and if you cant get out.. fix her a nice dinner.. candles.. show her some romance..

that aint right.. i flat out told my kids dads.. the child comes first.. i dont care if i'm having a heart attack if my kid is hungry leave me to die

ahahaaaaaaaaaaaaaa oh this reminds me of being young......

But you should want to go to her not because she wants you to....if she has to tell you to come home then maybe someone (YOU) needs to grow up a little, especially since your going to be a parent!

That's her insecurity talking. It should change when the baby arrives.

How often do you go out each week?

Is she your mom?

If not it should be a mutually agreed time home, not an ordered one. I do not at all think it is unreasonable for her to want to know when you'll be back, but the time is not up to her.

If my SO said he'd been in by 1:00am and I woke up at 2:00 and he was not home, I'd worry. That is inconsiderate. But she shouldn't be telling you when to be back and moreso not to tell your friends. She sounds a bit controlling and demanding. I should know, I've been that way myself (about other things)!

she is gonna have to realize once the baby comes the child comes first in both of your lives..

Is she your mom?

If not it should be a mutually agreed time home, not an ordered one. I do not at all think it is unreasonable for her to want to know when you'll be back, but the time is not up to her.

If my SO said he'd been in by 1:00am and I woke up at 2:00 and he was not home, I'd worry. That is inconsiderate. But she shouldn't be telling you when to be back and moreso not to tell your friends. She sounds a bit controlling and demanding. I should know, I've been that way myself (about other things)!

k for starters.. a little hint.. dont tell her you love her no matter what when she tells you she has gained weight.. tell her that you love how she is helping your child grow strong..

might give her a good sence of accomplishment and lets her know you know she'll be a good mom

she's most likely not experiancing the hormones of a 6 month pregnant woman.. something else is probably bothering her..

i've been pregnant 3 times..

and i never had hormones like most women

i cried alot more.. but anything did that even if i was happy

sit down talk to her.. maybe she is scared because of the pregnancy perhaps she feels you wont be attracted to her when she gets bigger.

there is something she needs to talk about but she might not know how to say it.. so sit with her.. talk to her..but make sure she knows that you love her and that she comes first in your life.. (untill baby comes then she is second lol)OMG plz dont say that all she asks me is when the baby come will i come second and idk what to say but no dear you'll always be #1

I remember when I found out I was pregnant. I was happy and scared at the same time. Scared if I would be a good mom or not and scared about the future. Happy for my blessing of a child. And the hormones were hitting.

After the realization of the situation sunk in, I started feeling better about everything and was just plain, ole happy.

She might be scared about how she will be as a mom and what kind of father he is going to be.

She needs to feel secure at a time like this and more so because she is so young.

she's most likely not experiancing the hormones of a 6 month pregnant woman.. something else is probably bothering her..

i've been pregnant 3 times..

and i never had hormones like most women

i cried alot more.. but anything did that even if i was happy

sit down talk to her.. maybe she is scared because of the pregnancy perhaps she feels you wont be attracted to her when she gets bigger.

there is something she needs to talk about but she might not know how to say it.. so sit with her.. talk to her..but make sure she knows that you love her and that she comes first in your life.. (untill baby comes then she is second lol) yea when she call me today she said sh gain weight but i said i luv u no matter what

Capeoneog~~ You sound like a very nice caring young man. I'm betting you will be a great daddy and you obviously care about the mom. Best wishes to you all.

hate to tell you this.. your gonna find ppl like that wether your black,white , pink,red or brown..

doesnt matter

what your friends say or think doesnt matter when it comes to you and your family .. that is only between you and your family


and by the way .. congrats on becoming a new daddy

Ok ill get serious. My ex is having my child in the next two weeks and when i first moved out here she was going through changes. Yes there was more to it then the hormons, but i did what i needed to do for me. When she was in her moods id let her be untill she could actually talk to me. Sometimes you just have to listen and not give any answers. Thats is all she is looking for right now, is you to be there. Just be understanding. And that means you have to bite yout tongue at times. It will pass. Just qurious though. How long is she?

Relationships are about compromise. In my eyes, your buddies are out of line if they get mad when you need to go home. Maybe they are jealous. It's really now of their business.

You do have a pregnant wife who may be feeling insecure when she's home alone and you are out having fun. She may be wondering what kind of future it will be when the baby is born and she is home alone with the newborn and you're out having fun.

Maybe talk to her about this. Ask her what is bothering her about you going out? Do you go out alot? Ask her what kind of compromise would make her feel better. You need a good foundation for your future.

She is not your enemy. She is your family. Family comes first.

If you are willing to accommodate her request by being home per her desire, then it is also your desire to be with her. In telling your friends that you need to be home for the old lady will make you look like a woos and her look like a controlling nag, whereas the case is actually neither. You obviously want to be with her or you would have declined her request. But, it's a situation which begs for negative feedback depending on how it is expressed. That's from whence her concerned commentary would arise. That will be 2 cents, please.

listen ur married and your about to become a father.. your family comes first.. not your friends.. you dont have to give them a good reason why you cant hang out with them and if they really need one.. tell them your wife that is carrying your child needs you for something.. its the only reason you need to give them..


if your friends dont like it.. oh well... you cant always have it all would you rather have friends or your family..

not saying she can controll your life.. but she does come before your friends

Well this explains everything. YOUR F@ucked