At the end of Jan. I was a size 24. Today, I'm a size 12. 80 lbs. so far, hard hard hard work. I put "average" but because I have a hard time seeing myself any differently than I was before, I felt like I was lying and changed it back & forth a few times. I see all the pics of the women who are so much prettier than I, and it's very intimidating. I don't know if I'm average or not.

I've met one guy total that I actually had a face/face with. His pic was a gagillion yrs old, and he had to have weighed 100 lbs. more than he claimed...@ LEAST 350. I was...appalled (most tactful word I can come up with). I would never, ever want someone to meet me and have that feeling. It was the most uncomfortable situation I've ever experienced; I would rather downplay myself online and make a killer impression in person.