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Wed 03/25/09 08:47 AM
One of my favs was "Lightening"

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Tue 03/24/09 02:50 PM

smile2What's the most common reasons a wife/husband cheats?shades


No self control

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Tue 03/24/09 02:40 PM
That's easy.. Their eyes

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Tue 03/24/09 12:15 PM
I've been outta the dating loop for so long now that I'm not sure what I'm attracted to anymore.. Hmm, now that's either a good thing or a very, very bad thing.

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Tue 03/24/09 10:56 AM
Nice to know

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Tue 03/24/09 10:55 AM
On time

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Tue 03/24/09 09:01 AM

:heart: What is the most important ingredient in love?:heart:


Respect and Compromise

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Sun 03/22/09 12:12 AM

bigsmile What's the worst dating advice you've ever heard?bigsmile


"Follow your heart"

The older I get, the less this works.. unfortunately

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Sun 03/22/09 12:01 AM

:heart: Do you think it is hard to find someone to love you for who you are?:heart:


Sometimes I think so... cause I have a certain vulnerability that no one gets..or maybe I won't let anyone in.

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Sat 03/21/09 11:41 PM
Edited by citygurl on Sat 03/21/09 11:42 PM




the bottom line is psychology or no psychology, if you can't accept someone as they are then you are not meant to be together.. If you feel someone needs to change then you shouldn't be with them.. We are all the people we want to be and should only be with someone that accepts and appreciates us for who we are...


I agree, but some of us don't have that option....


Why wouldn't we have that option?


Everyone I've ever been with -- with one exception -- has made it a high priority to try to change me into someone/something else.

Circumstances have placed me in a position where it is simply not possible for me to meet anyone at all, at the present time.

And if I did, history tells me they would simply follow in the footsteps of the past partners who tried to change me.

The concept of being with someone who would accept me as I am, while extremely alluring and desirable, is simply not a realistic scenario at this time. And in all probability, never will be.



Although I respect and understand what you say.. not all of us want to change someone.. and history is only a bad example if we choose to let it hinder our future..IMO

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Sat 03/21/09 11:15 PM


the bottom line is psychology or no psychology, if you can't accept someone as they are then you are not meant to be together.. If you feel someone needs to change then you shouldn't be with them.. We are all the people we want to be and should only be with someone that accepts and appreciates us for who we are...


I agree, but some of us don't have that option....


Why wouldn't we have that option?

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Fri 03/20/09 12:44 PM
L:heart: ve your new pic!!

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Fri 03/20/09 01:53 AM


their man brains.........why cant they think like US????noway slaphead rofl rofl rofl


Because if we thought like you, why would we need you?devil


Umm.. you'd need us for other things, I'm thinkin blushing

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Fri 03/20/09 01:29 AM

bigsmile What do you dislike about the opposite sex?bigsmile


Nothing!! At all! I love men.

If I were to generalize though, I'd say the only thing I dislike is that most of them don't really get us.

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Fri 03/20/09 12:36 AM
Ouch..

That hurts my eyes... and yet I can't look away shocked

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Fri 03/20/09 12:26 AM
"Sponges" Never leave home without them.. :laughing:

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Thu 03/19/09 11:53 PM
Where are we goin??

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Sat 03/14/09 09:04 AM
1961smile2

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Fri 03/13/09 10:19 PM
smooched smooched

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Fri 03/13/09 10:09 PM
Edited by citygurl on Fri 03/13/09 10:10 PM
Age matters to me.. I want to experience the same things at the same time with my SO

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