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Sun 01/03/10 04:08 PM

:banana: YAY!!!! My son's teacher gave me some really nice twin matresses... and a kick @ss bookcase! Now I have a real bed... instead of sleeping on a futon. I am going to go to salvation army tomorrow to get a frame and headboard for it! :banana:


This is fabulous! Futons are NOT comfy to sleep on. I hope you sleep warm and comfy from now on!!!!

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Sun 01/03/10 04:04 PM
Edited by heathersaysgobucks on Sun 01/03/10 04:06 PM
Maybe you could find some big brother type guy who's been there and done that (like at a meeting somewhere) who would be willing to talk to him. Somebody that had compassion for where your son is in life. Sounds like peer pressure is getting him bigtime.

Edit to say: the good thing is he is talking to you about it. Sounds like you two have a good relationship.

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Sun 01/03/10 03:54 PM



What drugs is he selling? Is it just pot, or meth or heroin?

He is your son, do you want him to go to jail? If you do report him.

Is he over twenty-one? He is old enough to make his own decisions and to take the consequences for them.

If he is into the drug culture there is nothing you can do about it but get him into some kind of rehab. If he goes to jail for drugs there is a ninety percent chance that he will get back into drugs when he gets out.

Talk to him. Tell him how you feel, and what your fears are about his behavior. And make sure he knows what will happen if he gets caught.


How will reporting him help? Won't they just arrest him?


He is far from rehab, to him smoking pot is just a release with his friends and just like alcohol to older people who have a cocktail now and again,


Ummmm mom, you better re-think this. If he is selling it then he is either growing it or is getting it from a chain higher up. The higher up you go, the more criminal it gets. Those guys don't give a **** if your son gets busted. I would do some serious research and show him just exactly how all this can screw up his life. Depending on how much dope he is dealing, it could be a pretty hefty sentence. I hope for your sake you can get him to see the light before someone else does it for him.

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Sun 01/03/10 12:53 PM
I have to go back tomorrow too, but I'm almost looking forward to it. Had some great disappointments over the weekend, but this too shall pass. I think it will be better getting back into a routine.

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Sun 01/03/10 12:40 PM

I made it...as of today I am 40 bigsmile


Happy Birthday! :banana: :banana:

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Fri 01/01/10 06:01 PM
Yeah baby.........:banana: :banana:

Love the happy endings!

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Fri 01/01/10 05:49 AM
Some people get mean when they drink eh?

Good Morning and Happy New Year all!
flowerforyou


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Fri 01/01/10 05:46 AM
Happy New Year to all!

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Thu 12/31/09 03:00 PM
I bought myself a tie dye hoodie. My christmas presents were all things for the house, so I splurged a little for something to wear.

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Thu 12/31/09 02:56 PM
There are some male colognes that will make me do things I hadn't intended to......laugh I use to love Drakkar (spelling?) Noir.
Mmmmmmmmmmmm, yummy!

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Thu 12/31/09 10:27 AM
Where is Gypsy anyhow? I miss her.

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Thu 12/31/09 10:24 AM


Any interesting holiday stories from the retreaters??

New Years Plans?

Anything?.....laugh


No plans for me.

I have to work New Years Eve and day.


Damn.....hope you at least get double time or something!

I'm supposed to be preparing food right now for our little party, and as usual I'm procrastinating.....laugh. Got my tree down and took all the cardboard stuff to the recycle place so at least I got a few things done.

One of these days I'm dragging you out of that one horse town.....

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Thu 12/31/09 10:19 AM
Any interesting holiday stories from the retreaters??

New Years Plans?

Anything?.....laugh

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Thu 12/31/09 10:13 AM

Happy New Year to everyone


And the same to you sir.

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Thu 12/31/09 10:11 AM
I learned pretty early on that internet friends are just not the same as someone you actually go out and do things with. Even those friends can hurt you, but at least you can hunt them down and shout at them.....laugh Kidding!

I used to have several (what I thought) were really really good internet friends until some hardships happened in my life and they were basically non-existent. Now I proceed with caution and rarely ever feel that true friendship feeling with someone I haven't met.

Red flags,IMO, regarding internet friends are those that when given a chance, do not take your friendship farther. For example, someone who has the opportunity to meet up with you (without too much fuss or money) and they continually come up with reasons why they cannot. That basically proves to me that the friendship is not worth much to them. As I said, that's only my opinion.

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Wed 12/30/09 06:09 PM


Laundry and straightening up the house. Then preparing food for a little New Year's Eve party we are having. Get to bring in the new year with some of my favorite people! I think this is going to be a good year!
Go buckeyes.A ducknoway Have a good oneflowerforyou


Yeah baby! You too hun....flowerforyou

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Wed 12/30/09 06:01 PM
Laundry and straightening up the house. Then preparing food for a little New Year's Eve party we are having. Get to bring in the new year with some of my favorite people! I think this is going to be a good year!

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Wed 12/30/09 02:20 PM

Good morning...thought I would drop in and say hi!

My name is Myra and I am 38...I have a daughter, just moved to a new place and am basically starting over from scratch...again. But, change is good, so I am looking forward to this adventure. I am happy to be Mingling again.


Myra!! So nice to see you here. I missed seeing you around mingle. Good luck at your new place!

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Wed 12/30/09 02:19 PM
Nicole, we had a similar problem yesterday. My kiddo went in for her yearly MRI and they gave her max sedation but she kept waking up. They did end up getting the brain images, but were unable to get the spine. They told me next time she will have to do general anesthesia. I have requested we bump to every 2 years now since she will get much more medication and I would think the risks are higher. She came home soooooooo irritable and then slept for 12 hours straight after I got her settled down. I hope you get some answers.....flowerforyou

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Wed 12/30/09 05:54 AM
Hope all goes well today! Will be thinking of you and your son Nicole.

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