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Thu 03/22/12 08:26 AM
Haha ew no. im not that girl

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Thu 03/22/12 08:17 AM
Ive never watched any of the american pies.
actually wait, ive watched band camp. Thats it. I liked the movie 21jump street.. It was like superbad.
big bang theory is pretty good, altho penny is probly the biggest reason I still watch haha.

And in that case, get bacon chunks too on the pizza so I can steal those too. Mmm bacon... I shud probly make breakfast lol. Youre toooo distracting Ash, with that sexy stare you had up lol

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Thu 03/22/12 08:13 AM
Im sure there is a girl out there willing to lick the sweat off. And that sure beats diaper rash

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Thu 03/22/12 07:53 AM

Okay okay. There's always an alternative




this guy is wearing a diaper... :|
And yet its full of money as opposed to.other things.diapers usualy are full og

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Thu 03/22/12 07:42 AM

Hell yeah!!! drool can we order a pizza too? And... And what are we gonna watch? Peeps going crazy on mingle2? Or American pie?

mm I do love pizza but I gave it up :( so you can keep it. Ill just steal the pepperoni toppings from you. Im getting ready to watch people on mingle2...thats always intetesting.. Altho I did just watvh 21 jump street. tHAT was a.funny movie. Love that chubby actor..Seth? And for once, Channing Tatum looked uglyyyyyyy

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Thu 03/22/12 07:28 AM
Hey Ash!!
im getting some popcorn ready.. With warm white heddar cheese sauce poured on top.
anyone wanna share?

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Thu 03/22/12 06:32 AM
Its a bikini :p while on vacation

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Wed 03/21/12 09:24 PM
Here is what it said : and apparently its only 11... Bad editing on their part

Do men cheat more often than women? Should you confess if you've had an affair? Is cheating always about sex? Read on for the top 12 infidelity myths and the truth—or lack thereof!—behind them.

Myth #1: People cheat because they're unhappy at home. If you're female, this is usually the case. Women in long-term marriages who are having affairs report low satisfaction with their marriage. For men, on the other hand, that's not necessarily the case. Many men who love their partners and have great sex at home never turn down an opportunity for a bit on the side if they think they can get away with it. In one study, 56 percent of cheating men surveyed said their marriages were very happy. Only 34 percent of unfaithful women agreed.

Myth #2: Men cheat much more than women do. This used to be the case, but now the infidelity scales are balancing out. Why? Women cheat for the same reasons as men: It's someone new. It's naughty (and therefore nice). But there are other reasons women cite: The affair was a "reward" for being an unappreciated wife and mother or for putting up with a partner who wasn't affectionate, didn't listen or ignored them. It was an "ego boost." (Gone are the days when we'd treat ourselves to a new lipstick or haircut to cheer ourselves up.) We're still not as blase about affairs as men—women are more likely to feel guilty—but given that studies show we're much better at lying, we're also more likely to get away with it.
It's also a myth that it's men who try to turn friendships into affairs. Most unfaithful men see affairs as high opportunity and low involvement. On the contrary, it tends to be women who push platonic relationships from friendship to love and fantasy to reality, according to psychologists. Women get more emotionally involved and are keen to test out friendships to determine if they'd make for better relationships than their current situations. Soshe'soften seeking a potential soul mate;he'sjust having fun.

Myth #3: Affairs are mostly about sex. Some affairs are about sex and most certainly include sex because sex with someone else is forbidden, making it very appealing. But sex is not always thereasonpeople cheat. Affairs are a way for people to get something they'renotgetting from the relationship they're in. It's that simple. What's not so simple is defining what it is that's missing. In fact, oftentimes the cheating partner isn't aware of it. Some people are searching for something they lost as a child, others for lost youth. Some people cheat on "perfect" partners because they're sick of perfection. It's not always about sex.

Myth #4: If he cheats on you, he doesn't love you. It may feel that way, but it's not necessarily the case. It does, however, mean he doesn't respect you enough to honor the commitment you've made to one another and that he has a different value system than yours. Some people are more than capable of separating sex from love and physically sleeping with someone else doesn't affect their love for you. Generally, men tend to have sex-based affairs, not emotional or "love-based" affairs. But, the decision you need to make is whether his definition of love is enough for you.

M yth #5: Sex with an ex isn't cheating because you've been there, done that.Sleeping with an ex is the sexual slip-up people most commonly expect to get away with. It doesn't feel like you're being unfaithful—it's not as if it's with someone new who might expect the sex to turn into a relationship—right? Wrong. Sadly, this is exactly why sex with an ex can have disastrous consequences. You might be having a shag for old times sake, but your ex may be doing it as a desperate bid to rekindle the relationship. So you have to break it off (again) and explain to your current partner why you're suddenly getting e-mails or calls from him after all this time. The chances of getting found out are actually higher than if you'd had sex with a stranger because strangers won't feel the need to write a long, incriminating closure e-mail.

Myth #6: You can affair-proof your relationship. You can lower the chances of an affair in your relationship, but there are never any guarantees. The next best thing? Choose the right partner. Choosing the right person is more important than keeping them happy once you've got them because things like morals, values systems and family backgrounds are much stronger influences on whether someone will cheat (or not).
Myth #7: If he has a history of cheating, he'll probably cheat on you too. This one is almost always true. If your partner's cheated on almost everyone they've been out with—and nothing has happened to make them rethink their behavior—they'll almost certainly do the same to you.

Myth #8: You should always confess if you've had an affair. If the affair is known or strongly suspected, you're better off telling. You've got more chance of rescuing your relationship after a voluntary confession than after an unwanted discovery. But if it's unlikely to be discovered, there are also valid reasons for keeping your mouth shut. For example, some experts will advise you not to tell if your partner's not the strongest person emotionally. News of an affair isn't exactly going to give them a leg up on that steep, bumpy road to high self-esteem!
Telling is going to wipe out any trust they'd mustered up, and it could take years to rebuild (if, indeed, that's possible). Instead, work out why you had the affair in the first place. What were you getting from it that you aren't getting from the relationship you're in? Is it possible to create that with the person you're already with?
The worst possible reason to confess an affair is to make yourself feel better. True, it will lift the guilt off your shoulders. But it will plonk a whole heap of pain on your partner's. You made the mistake, now deal with the consequences.

M yth #9: Cheating doesn't count if no one finds out about it. Does
cheating really matter if there's absolutely no chance you'd ever get found out, you will never see the person again, you had safe sex, it meant nothing and you told no one? It completely depends on your personality. If you genuinely see nothing wrong with what you did, it probably doesn't. There's just one problem with this theory: Very few people truly believe there's nothing wrong with cheating. Even dodgy people are aware they're doing something "wrong" and this is where it all unravels, as your perception of your partner changes. You're one up on him because you got away with something. This makes him appear either naive and too trusting, or vulnerable and hopelessly helpless. Good relationships are based on mutual admiration and respect, not pitying your partner or secretly thinking they're ignorant.

Myth #10: If there's no sex involved, it's not an affair. Emotional infidelity —deep, passionate connections between people who often aren't even aware they've crossed the line from platonic friendship to romantic love—is the biggest threat a marriage can face. More than 80 percent of unfaithful people have affairs with someone who'd started out as "just a friend," very often a workmate. In fact, one study showed that 50 percent of unfaithful women and 62 percent of unfaithful men were involved with someone at work. Intense but invisible, erotic but unconsumed, emotional infidelity is dangerous, addictive and way too easy to get away with. If you're often pretending you're single when you're not; if you send secret texts or emails; if you share intimate details of your life with people you fancy and lie to your partner about seeing them, you're an emotional cheater.

Myth #11: Fantasizing about someone else means you're about to be unfaithful. While many sex therapists will actually encourage couples in long-term relationships to fantasize about other people to cope with temptation—logic being, it's okay to be unfaithful in your head, just not your bed—others say it's risky. They say affairs start in the mind and fantasy sex can make you want the real thing even more. The whole point of fantasies, after all, is to conjure up brilliantly perfect sex. While the real life unfaithful encounter is likely to be far less exciting and imperfect, strong images can increase the craving to stray.
Having said that, looking at the reasons why the person strayed can help piece together what's left of what you had before. People often have affairs to reinvent themselves or, more accurately, to be the person they think they want to be. A long-term partner is likely to see you as the person you were when you met, rather than the person you've become, or the person you want to become. An affair gives you the chance to start over. That's why, after an affair, it's important to ask, "Who were you with that person? How can you be that person with me?"

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Wed 03/21/12 09:20 PM
I found this article on Yahoo today.
Its the 12 myths of cheating

http://m.yahoo.com/w/ygo-frontpage/lp/story/ca/190182/coke.bp%3B_ylt=A2KL8y4oqGpP6yoAtx8p89w4%3B_ylu=X3oDMTFyam8xc3U4BGNwb3MDMgRjc2VjA21vYmlsZS10ZARpbnRsA2NhBHBrZwNpZC0xOTAxODIEcG9zAzEEc2xrA3RodW1i?ref_w=frontdoors&.tsrc=yahoo&.ysid=vfgRavjTZBxr4TyLO_4yjgMp&.intl=CA&.lang=en-ca

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Wed 03/21/12 08:56 PM

To be safe, I'm going to eat Fillet of fish sandwiches from McDonalds (eat them before they eat us) and sleep with a harpoon under my pillows. Oh yeah, it's not safe to go back in the water and we definitely need a bigger boat.


Eat them before they eat us. Lmao I agree!

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Wed 03/21/12 08:43 PM
Im thinking that im bored and lonely.. Would love some entartainment

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Wed 03/21/12 01:18 PM
Ive read the pursuit of happiness and watched the movie. Very worth it.

And im thoroughly enjoying reading the posts in this thread. Its very interesting to see how people feel about this subject.

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Tue 03/20/12 09:17 PM

I think people take porn too seriously. I've never dealt with someone who has lied about watching it, or who has been addicted to it. Sometimes, it's even fun to watch together. And other times, it's just funny.


It can be funny, and it can be fun together. I agree.
but once you meet someone who is addicted and someoe who hides watching it and lies to your face when he really has no need to lie, everything changes when it comes to your point of view on porn

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Tue 03/20/12 09:10 PM
Plus porn is whole diff story.
It gives people.false hopes and expectations.

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Tue 03/20/12 09:10 PM
It would, if he were to hide it or lie or watch it excessively.

Also, i gave my serious two year relationship partner a few videos and pictures of myself. Bad stupid habit and mistake I know, and yet he still.felt the need to use porn. Therefre it bothers me in thoae cases, otherwise id be fine watching it with.my.partner

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Tue 03/20/12 09:01 PM
The thing is everyone fantasizes, daily, or weekly. So fantasizing about someone we know is a.form.of cheting, but famtasizing bout a celebrity etc isnt, imo

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Tue 03/20/12 08:57 PM



How is it not a form of cheating?


A better question would be how is watching porn cheating?


Well you're fantasizing about being sexual with someone other than your partner. You're cheating in a way, no? You're lusting over someone other than your partner, who should be the only one you have any sexual desire for.

It's kinda hard to explain, if you don't see it the same way.

How is encouraging yourself to desire others sexually not a form of cheating?


I fully agree!

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Tue 03/20/12 07:00 PM

I didn't mean for it to come across as me saying you're trying to play dumb, but those are forms of cheating.

What I was trying say is when people are confronted by their partner when getting caught, they may try to make excuses, and try to manipulate it to seem as though they were not cheating, or didn't feel as though they were.

When you are supposed to be exclusive with another, it's usually in every way, not just physical. Every person and relationship is different though.


I agree fully. But I felt I should ask because in my other thread, the question of what is considered cheating kept popping up.

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Tue 03/20/12 06:37 PM


Everyone's got a different definition. Let's hear it


I don't see how everyone can have a different definition. I mean, if you want to play dumb, I guess I can see, but it's when one is emotionally, physically, sexually, or intimately involved with another, without the acceptance from the other. There's different kinds of cheating, but it's pretty self explanatory.


Im not trying to 'Play dumb' at all. Its an honest question.
some people view sexting as cheating, somw view.porn as cheating, some view sex as cheating, some.view other things as cheating. Thereforw everyone has their.own definition.

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Tue 03/20/12 06:34 PM
Any type except intimate. Im lacking