Sarah, I am so sorry.

There aren't any words that will take this away for you. Know that you have touched my heart and the hearts of many others, and you have love and support even when you don't think you do.

Even though this is just a message board-there are real, caring people out here who feel compassion, and share tears of sadness when they hear about the inexplicable loss in the life of a sweet, beautiful person like yourself.

Blessings to you girl-feel free to email me if you need a caring shoulder.

Lisa

I had the same question when I was new on mingle-the person you want to chat with also has to be online, then you go to their profile and you can click on the chat button that appears when they are online too.
Good luck!

But listen closely...

Not for very much longer

I've got to keep control!

Welcome!
Have fun and don't get pressured into anything...you have all the time you want to find out if the people you meet are as they present themselves. I like this website because of the forums and open communication. Be safe and have fun meeting people!
Cheers!