They do use the site... but some are traditionalists and expect the men to do all the work, while the rest, just like many of the dudes, are trying this site out, and are a little skeptical, maybe even timid, when it comes to putting themselves out there... That goes for both ladies and gents. There are those that strap on a pair and dive in head first, Some that are confident enough to assume they will get what they want, and some that are just trying to test the waters first... nothing wrong with any case scenerio, but the truth is, some folks are on the quiet side, feeling like they lost a saftey net. at least that's how I see it, I could be wrong.

Old enough to know better, too old to care, too young to die... Good enough for me.

One of my biggest fantasies is to see Kanye West do what he did to Taylor Swift to James Hetfield... and then watch what happens to Kanye West. lol

Don't worry, i consider it a no-razor zone down there.

probably pass gas... i really don't plan that far ahead.

Kids in a supermarket that run around screaming their heads off, wandering in the way of shopping carts, and the parents that don't do jack about it.

I think for many it's all relative. there is always someone older, no matter how old you are... at least till you are old enough to be dead. As for those of us circling in on 30, I look at it as the age where you aren't old, but you are old enough to call people younger than you "kid" the ones in their early 20s

Allentown PA

I'm an Allentown guy, just seeing what's out there. I'm kind of new to this whole mess, so bare with me. A couple if buddies of mine suggested I should put myself out there, so here it goes.

Born in Atown (obviously) lived here all my life. I'm kind of a free spirited guy, I'm into graphic art, I love to play pool, and I'm a bit of a geek. I'm also somewhat of a goofball, I like to laugh and have a good time, I also like to make other people laugh. Lately in my life, I've learned how important laughter is, and how much of a gift it can be, especially these days when the world around you just keeps trying to suck the laughter away.

I enjoy good converstation. I like to share my thoughts with anyone who would listen, and I like people who can do the same.

I'm somewhat disappointed by how many people I see locally that seem so cookie-cutter, and two-dimensional, like "Jersey Shore" is their bible to life. It makes me think there is no one real anymore.

I'd love to be proven wrong, and then some.

You are only as old as you feel.... my joints ache enough to file for social security, Yet mentally i still feel 19... I'm 28... there's a conflict going on here.

You know, this is a very very good question.

You certainly have to be a glutton for punishment.

I feel like my world is a busted tenement, but it's cool, because I've learned to be fine with that; Like i'm capable of much more this way.

Green

Hey folks... so.... Is this a private party or can anyone join?

Good... Bad.... Depends on what I'm feeling that day.

I see the world as a funhouse slide into madness. Weeeeeeeeee!!! hehe.