.soooo.. what happens if it turns out they are horrible in bed then what do you do lol.. I don't buy a car unless I get to test drive it first lol

.soooo.. what happens if it turns out they are horrible in bed then what do you do lol.. I don't buy a car unless I get to test drive it first lol

I thought the whole point behind dating women.. was so you can have sex with them.... now the OP'... is telling me... that were supposed to be in it for love.... and just for love..
no sex!. none whatsoever.. nada.
. Zippo with the sex..... did you fall down and hit your head on something hard Op.?... JUST LOVE ME..

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Don't give that one ^^ sex, Amaria.

^^^^^^^ I'm thinkin there is a traitor amongst us...WTF???

Wow!!!.. and I just try to go right back to sleep to pick up where I left off.

Hey Uche
What do you do when you have a dream with sexual overtones. Do you wake up and punch yourself in the face?

Someone, somewhere said something like this..

For a man to feel loved, he needs sex.
For a lady to want sex, she needs to feel loved.

My take is: Not all women want to buy a full pig when she only needs a sausage.

Uche! I'm taking away your man card, govern yourself accordingly

correct sir uche

my legs are crossed

This is absolutely true...
Marriage, when it is healthy, will include its share of sacrificing for each other. But people nowadays don't have the mind to sacrifice for each other instead they end up divorcing.
Two people cannot come together in one home, love, communicate, and care for each other without occasionally suffering for each other.

''My husband is an amazing example of a sacrificing husband. There have been several times I’ve cut back on certain foods for my health and he’s been faithful to not only support me, but to give up the same foods. Even when he would be out of my presence, he would still turn them down. Perhaps his biggest sacrifice was when he gave me the amazing chance to stop working outside the home, allowing me to work on my health goals and to devote time to my home and to our work with couples. He willingly went without extra fun money and time to give me this opportunity and to bless our family. He is the hardest working man I know, and I am truly blessed to have him. "

We need to develop strong love and sacrifice among ourselves to keep our marriage everlasting.

An excellent point raised, my 'friend'.

I have been ruminating for a while, and finally deduced that this issue might be capably dealt by:

(a) Aged people, who have remained married to the very same person, all through their lives.

(b) Men & Women of 'this' generation, who've been married, at least once.

So why is even important to be married in today's society? To me, it turned into a joke both times. Some say for the benefit of the other, but the second time around we had pre-nups and transfer on deaths setup for the benefit of our kids from our first failed marriages. I'm finding out that more folks I know don't want to get married again, but does that mean they are going to stay celibate? Very doubtful and they also don't want to be tied to someone else just for the benefits. And what benefits, if they die first? So my first ex, if she doesn't remarry might get $250 a month more in SS, because we were married over tens years. WooHoo.

And with the supreme court ruling, that gays have the right to married, you know who applauded the loudest? The divorce attorneys. Why? Why do you thing, just increase their client base, because we know that gays have money.

But to answer your question it was harder, at least in Ohio, to get divorced in the olden days. I remember when my mom and dad divorced in the 60's, my mom told me the judge did everything to try to make them stay together for the sake of us kids. Even though my dad flat out cheated on her and was never home. Now back to present day, I got divorced mainly because we fought every night about how loud the TV was in the bedroom. Of course, judge didn't care and the divorce attorney just wanted his pay.