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Mon 09/28/09 09:07 AM
:heart: Congratulations, you two!

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Mon 09/28/09 09:02 AM
Suz posted a thread last week about a relationship therapist who published an article telling people to spy on their mates!

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Mon 09/28/09 08:47 AM

Actually...that makes you a "Manny"...:wink:


laugh laugh laugh

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Mon 09/28/09 08:46 AM

Good luck and as long as you all put in the effort everything should turn out ok, during the rocky patches cross your fingerslaugh laugh flowerforyou Anna x


Thanks. I haven't met his daughter yet, she is 21 and the oldest. That's the scariest one to me!

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Mon 09/28/09 08:45 AM
Welcome.

I see you are very subtle.

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Mon 09/28/09 08:43 AM
Edited by lilith401 on Mon 09/28/09 08:44 AM


I like to go in the Diary thread every now and again and make an admission. It feels good.
I love the diary....I get bj pointers from lilith there!!!!:tongue: laugh


rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl

I say things in that thread I can't believe I post!!

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Mon 09/28/09 08:41 AM
Welcome!

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Mon 09/28/09 08:38 AM


And that changes what.

What this changes is your ability to understand what I meant in my post. I'm certain you disagree...

No don't have any of my own but I was the nanny to my sisters kids (3) for 5 years. I have met lots of children through my relations over the years since once you reach a certain age the majority of woman you meet have kids and some liked me some didn't so I know how it feels to meet the kids of your lover.

Doesn't mean I never had kids that i cannot have an opinion.



You can definitely have an opinion. Everyone has that right. But it was evident in your post you aren't a parent.

I have nephews too.

I'm sorry, but your post was simply ridiculous. Meeting the children of your SO is a big huge freaking deal, and you should care what they think. Not being nervous about it, filtering and carefully wording what you say.... well that's reckless. Not to mention disrepectful of your SO.

And I should add, in end, that I didn't ask for their judgment and I doubt I ever will.

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Mon 09/28/09 08:33 AM
If Lexy moves to a more populated area he would likely find.... MORE women who drink that are mothers. laugh laugh laugh laugh

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Mon 09/28/09 08:32 AM
That I'm not as easily amused as I could be!

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Mon 09/28/09 08:31 AM

Congratulations,, u passed with the kids,, have you passed the best friend test yet?...lol


Nope... not met the best friend yet. The best friend's wife was pretty tight with the ex, so I'm thinking that might be a long time coming!

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Mon 09/28/09 08:26 AM


laugh laugh so Lilith can be scared laugh laugh

So I am thinking you passed with flying colors :wink: how could you not flowerforyou


They like me, thank goodness. I suppose at some point it will stop feeling like a congressional hearing!laugh

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Mon 09/28/09 08:25 AM

Good job Holly, I love teenagers..My gsons friends all call me grandma and think I'm cool because I ride a motorcycle !


That's because you ARE cool! You're so cool I bet people can see their breath when you enter a room!

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Mon 09/28/09 08:17 AM

Why terrified unless you have things to hide nothing to be afraid of.

Why would you need to be prepared just have to be yourself what else can you be.

Direct questions or not unless you have things to hide be honest and should be no problem.

You can't control what teens think just be yourself and let them make their mind on your true self not on a prepare terrified one.

In one sentence, be yourself that is all the another person teens or adults can ask and judge you on.


I see you don't have kids.

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Mon 09/28/09 08:10 AM

at least there wasn't any booty shots on the phone surprised :laughing: pitchfork


Nope, no sexting for me.

And I figured out it wasn't Jeff with how the message was worded.... so I just ignored it. Then I get a message that said, "What did my kids just ask you?"

laugh I had to laugh. laugh

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Mon 09/28/09 08:08 AM

owww, that would be scary.

I have boys so I have always had a houseful of them at varied ages.

Yeah, teenagers these days are pretty sharp, not much gets by them.

I have found over the years that nothing is more entertaining than a room

full of teenage boys and me on the other side of the wall when they don't

know I'm there listening.


Ohhh they ask me about religion and about my job....

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Mon 09/28/09 08:08 AM


Yeah, he told me if they didn't like me I'd definitely know about it. Teenagers are terrifying.


Youre awesome. *pat on the back for you*

Now go do something nice for yourself, you deserve it.


Hey, thanks! flowerforyou flowerforyou

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Mon 09/28/09 08:07 AM
The best was when they tried to apologize for getting ahold of their dad's phone and asking me sex questions via text. That was about a week ago.

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Mon 09/28/09 08:06 AM
You make my Mondays sometimes. :heart: :heart: :heart:

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Mon 09/28/09 08:05 AM
Yeah, he told me if they didn't like me I'd definitely know about it. Teenagers are terrifying.

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