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Tidbit I am glad your having fun.....tell all your friends to come have fun too......

Here is my main gripe with "love" and how people use the word. See, I remember back in high school how, as teenagers, you would date someone and you would write on your book cover, or your folders, how "I love this person". Yeah, it is innocent, but I can also remember there were some kids back then who firmly believed they were in love. Then, two weeks later, you break up cause you love some other person? Yeah...that sure as heck was love.

This just shows how we take "love" for granted. We feel something for someone in that moment we like them, and assume we are in love with them. Hell, you see it on TV all the damn time. Look at Soap Operas. How many times has a chic on one of those shows been in love and married? Maybe 10 times? And celebrities. We say they don't influence us, but look at how marriage is viewed in Hollywood. It means squat to actually believe in love out there.

Another problem is that some feel that having great sex with someone means that they are falling in love with them. They base a relationship on sex....the physical. Not any actual feelings they have, except for the feeling of being sexually satisfied (Nothing wrong with this, but a relationship cannot be solely based around this.). Sex with someone you care for and love is an added benefit.

I can honestly remember a time when love meant something. Thing is, we don't talk the way we used to. We don't mean things the way we used to. We don't stand by what we say, cause in today's world, it is all about "Me" and the whole instant gratification thing. Until we start to give a damn about what we say, meaning it, and knowing it to be what we want, and not only caring about our own personal feelings....I just don't see things changing.

You mean after talking online? Maybe, but love is like a plant, it starts out as a seed, when place in the right soil, and given proper care, it will grow, and blossom.

^^^ ya but that can be construed to be 'lust' not 'love'

We fall in love with the idea of falling in love.

Actually. I feel love is a word that is used way too often today....and often used in the wrong context. I am speaking about a relationship here, and when you get right down to the nitty gritty, "love" is something that, I feel, takes time. I believe that when you meet someone, you either become very interested in them or you decide to move along. Then, if you decide to see that person more often, then yes, "true" love can develop.

For me when rationalizing why I am still single, my most common response is that I am "the nice guy."

I know why I'm single....I want to be....I have high expectations for what I want & won't settle for less....

Honesty & Communication: can't have one without the other....women complain about men in these areas....guess what?....they are no different....

Acceptance & Committment: another issue I've been having trouble finding in a woman

Time & Gratitude: so many say they want a relationship but when it comes to finding the time, yeah....& gratitude....If I take you out & pay for things, a little thank-you for setting it up & taking care of things would be nice....

*you know ladies....if you want a man, learn to treat him right...yes, it works both ways, I know....but don't forget what I just said....

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Have fun sweets and don't forget to update me.


Will do. thanks sweets!

ahhhhhh hi sweets.......It's so great to see you again...are you going to stick around and play?

Beware the landmines of indignance and deceit. Truth is just a theory to some. Hatred disguses itself in many forms. Be sensitive to find what gives you true peace and you 'will' find it. Mystery and philosophy turn in circles in the darkness. Simplicity is found in the human heart and without words, follow that and the answer will come.