Good advice BUT:
and what if the current state of "you" is an insecure, low selfesteem depressed version of yourself?

(note saying thats what I think you are badboy)

I was given this advice years ago and it was the WORST advice ever because who I was, was NOT the kind of person anyone would want to be associated with.

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DO THIS:
Write down your PERFECT woman, (yea yea I know nobodys perfect but this is his dream girl im asking to describe) from looks to personality and THEN ask yourself: what kind of guy would a woman like this date?

Fact: personality ultimately overules everything.

Therefore: your answer is to develop YOUrself.
become the kind of guy that your dream girl would adore.

yea its gets easier.
but its like Tom Cruise on a couch.
it has its ups and downs.
*comedic drum roll*

oh its friends with benefits.

I have no F*cking Wild B*itchass idea?

Ok, I will ask you; WHY is that pitiful?

emo is short for emotional hardcore....read that in a mag some time back when this emo BS start infecting everyones brains.

chicks dig'em because they come across deep meanwhile they're just a bunch of whining pansies.
One woman on the radio was questioned why she likes guys that wear make-up (not a tranny, an emo) and her response was:

"its not the make up thats a turn on its the confidence that he has to wear it that is"......MEANWHILE:

all that is is "cognitive dissonance"

so wheres this nude pic already?

because they have had a frontal labotomy (sp?) sothey are incapable of moving their eyeballs past the point of their nose.

I recommend giving them a step ladder to make things less awkward.

Thats why you gotta makes sure you label yourself 5000miles away from where you are so that you reverse murphy's law.

yzzrabbit: "My God, my God, why have you forsaken me?"

If you are God you cannot forsake yourself."
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yzrabbit, did you even read the passage out of the bible?

Psalm 22:1 is addressed: "to the cheif musician: set to the tune of Aijeleth Hashshahar (the hind of the morning dawn). A Psalm of DAVID. -Amplified Bible, pub by Zondervan.
DAVID.
DAAAVID.
Not Jesus, DAVID.

"My God, my God, why hast thou forsaken me?.."

yea the whole gifts in heaven thing; fire judgement etc etc.
it must be crystal clear that salvation is not done by what you do or by keeping commandments.

I heard that your personality is defined by what period in the year you are born!
ridiculous.

I find it AMAZING how people can look at a beautiful sunset and say "its happend by accident" yet believe in the lunacy of horoscopes.

assuming that the father is dead; yes.

Read, no reply but went for a bit of a perv' at your profile,
or
Read, no reply and no perving
or
Not even getting your message read?

I'd say not even read because then you never know what could happen since they never read it. Probably forgot about this site.

Who are your friends?
where do you and your friends hang out?
what do you and your friends do for fun?

You are who you hang with and if you are constantly getting bedpost-notching losers its a sign that you're fishing in the wrong pool.

not all of them are ****ing assholes, some off them are ****ing the front door.

I learned more this year than I have my entire life.
If I could summarise this year in one word it would be growth or blessed.

LOL! nice one. if there was a rep sys. you'd get repped.

Welcome to hell..inferno or non-inferno?

-lol, its a Farside comic sketch if you're wondering why Im being so negative

Yes verry interesting at the mo.
A bill was just passed that pretty much breachs free speach during an election year.

the just of it is that you CANT say anything that is politically related uless you get a 'permit' kind of thing, that has to be authorised by the govt; So I cant say "the labour party are a bunch of corrupt ****s because they changed the law after they broke it (which they did) where they made their theft of tax-payers money to promote themselves during the election year (800,000 $)"

I cant say that verbally, or on a site, or make a sign or anything without getting chased down by the watchdogs, and getting a criminal record.

this "electoral finance bill" prevents free speach during an election year AND the current party in govt gets to have $17million of tax payers $ to promote themselves where ALL other opposing parties are restricted to $2 million.

sorry, rant over.