until our lips are numb

Yes, every night







ride a hot air balloon?

long and lingering

shoot the breeze

yes







skinny dip?

to Las Vegas

green iced tea

kiss, kiss

ashygal, I'm sorry for your loss. Everyone is right you know, it'll be different for all who become widowed. Sometimes it will depend on the circumstances surrounding their death or perhaps the state of your relationship at that time. Then again it may only depend on your comfort level. Definitely go with your own intuition.

I was widowed very suddenly in July 2003, just 5 months after losing my brother and 26 months after losing my best friend. It really shook up my world and I wasn't ready to date for the first two years. I couldn't even bring myself to remove my engagement ring and wedding band for the first year and a half. Once I did start dating I knew I had waited just the right amount of time for me.

If you feel like you're ready go ahead and give it a shot. If you feel the least bit uncomfortable, other than just nerves, back away for a bit and try at a later time. Best wishes.

"What the heck............

Z ~ zinc

Harvey Kietell

George Goebels

lay a big

Howard Cosell

but not before

^^^oops, that was for Karen!

All 3 for you Jack

shoot the breeze, have some drinks, go shopping and laugh up a storm....I can't wait until Texas

Kenny Rogers

don't know the person but that sure is a cute lil doggie!