An evening gown, a satin half open bra and a g-string.
Nothing else.

What if the guy who is attached cheats on his girlfriend with this other girl because his girlfriend doesn’t give him enough attention and is lacking in efforts when it comes to her relationship?
Can the other girl go for this guy without having to feel guilty in this hypothetical situation.
The other girl is willing to give him much more attention,... Can they proceed if they keep it a secret from the guy’s current girlfriend who is coming short in her relationship?

I totally agree with you that it is rude to text on a date itself but I was texting with other guys after the dates. And the guy I was dating figured it out and freaked out. That happened again with a couple of other guys. I never understood why they freaked out. The phase of dating is not a relationship yet, it’s just that, dating. But they thought I was their propriety already and that I couldn’t text or flirt with other guys anymore because I was dating them already. Do you think their reaction was warranted?

If you met a person in the neighbourhood where you live ( or somewhere else ) , both of you are into each other but one of the two is attached to someone else, would it be right to proceed or should you hold the boat off?
This is a hypothetical discussion / hypothetical question.

That lovely feeling that makes me shiver from head to toe, makes me slip up in my language, makes my temperature rise a few degrees and makes me not want to see all his short comings, but only his qualities. That is love.

But that is the thing : it’s just casual dating. And after a few days they are already pretending that I’m theirs, while I’m not. I’m a very open person and very few things are taboo in my text book. So talking about other guys with a guy is not taboo either in my textbook. These guys start stalking me after a few days, giving me orders, freaking out when I don’t reply fast enough and then they act surprised when it comes to arguments and if that means the end of our dating. I mean, we were just dating. It was not a relationship yet. So why should they freak out like that and stalk like that? I mean, it’s not like I owe them anything or they me. We are both free people who are just dating, not giving each other our eternal vows. So yes, I think their reaction is unwarranted. I’m not their propriety, just a date.

This is what I would say to my soulmate out there in the wild world :

I may not be the easiest, the prettiest, the smartest or the kindest person in the world but I have self-knowledge. I try to work on my weaknesses and don’t try to take my strengths for granted. If you are that person that my heart beats faster for, I will do everything in my possession to make you feel like a king. I will not take you for granted. I will kiss you a goodmornlng and we will never go to sleep with unsolved arguments at night, because no one promises us a tommorrow. I will be by your side when you are working on the projects you believe in. I will be by your side when you need a shoulder to cry on. I will be by your side to share your happiness. Through sorrow we will go together, you’ll never walk alone. I will sleep on your chest at night, to hear the sound of your beautiful heart beating. I will cry tears of joy, when our first little one will call you daddy for the first time. I will cry tears of joy when you sneakily went to the florist, with our youngest, on mother’s day and surprise me with a dozen of roses and a self made drawing from our little treasure. I will be with you to pick the grapes from the branches, when we are retired and in our 60s and decide to buy a house somewhere in the sunny south of France. I will be the first one to support your idea of buying a Harley when you are in your late 30s and want your wild years back. As long as I can be your biker girl who can sit in the back. I will help you pay off every little cent when we decide to buy a motorhome to travel in the weekends with, when the kids are grown up and out of the house. For now, I will be with you when we travel the world backpacking, without a dime in our pockets, only our love for each other under the naked stars.

I always seem to run into these types. Time after time. The first days they seem so cool and relaxed and after a few days they get snappy when I don’t respond fast enough, they start stalking,.. and they get mad to the point of wanting to control me. Usually that scares me and because that scares me we end up in arguments and our dating ends. That’s how it usually goes. Usually between getting to know each other and the end of our dating there have been 5 dates and lots of online contact.
I wonder if it is the fact that I show my vulnerability that makes them want to control me.
Sometimes I wonder if I show less emotions if that will keep them calmer.

Jealousy is indeed also unhealthy in my opinion.
It can take on frightening proportions if it gets out of hand.
Like wanting to know every single minute where the person you are dating is,...
I mean, they are still a free person and not a prisoner.

Well worded!

Would you be jealous if the person you were dating is texting with other people of the same sex as you?
I have noticed a tendency of jealousy in the guys I dated, when they figured out that I was texting with other guys. To be honest, it surprised me. I couldn’t understand why they were jealous. I mean, if you date someone, that person is still a free person that does what they want. That person shouldn’t defend themselves every time they had a good time with other people than you. Imho.

Some guys that I got to know online started losing control because I didn’t reply fast enough.... That’s something that I consider a red flag. I mean, why should I defend myself if I take half an hour to answer because I have other things to do?

When I talk about other guys to a guy I’m dating, usually he will freak out and get suspicious and ask me all kinds of questions as if it were an investigation. I never understood why.

So, when is jealousy getting unhealthy?

Evanescence
My immortal

1)Cocktails on a beach in a warm country.
2)Hot guys with a nice personality.
3)A credit card filled with tons of cash.

In my evening gown and camming + chatting.
+ watching series on Netflix
+ Mingle 2

Does jumping on the guy who is on the couch count? :’D
Have you ever crushed on One Direction?

Yes, I occassionally still do. I love it. It’s a rewarding activity to see your end product after a hard day of work.
Have you ever collected something? ( coins, stamps )

Often. I’m very clumsy.
Have you ever been to the fair with your boyfriend and found yourself going into an attraction that was meant for toddlers?

No, I’m too scared after having seen the movie : “ the day after tommorrow “ .
Have you ever been to Brussels, the capital of Belgium?
Belgium is that country that Trump thought was a city and that he called hellhole.

Massage oil and lube

Hiii.

Well, I’m a regular since a few weeks.

I’m an opinionated little thing that has a way too big mouth and need to shut up from time to time.
I can talk all day long, my mouth never stands still.
I love gossipping about all kinds of topics and all kinds of people.
I’m also always hungry for new knowledge. I love reading about fresh/actual commonly discussed themes and I always take my time to write a well thought out response / comment.
I love literature and poetry and while I’m only 22 years old, I have an old soul in a young body.
My favorite television serie used to be “ Ghost Whisperer “. Mysterious, paranormal things have always caught my interest. Oh and shopping of course.

I look forward to read the self-introduction of other regulars.

By the way : nice thread you started OP :-)

Gone as in “ gone from Mingle2 “ or “ gone to the other side”