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Of course you have the right but the longer he sits and stews over it the less likely you are to come back to a guy who still wants you. I'm not trying to make him angry, I'm trying to make him miss me, show him that I have things to do, and I'm not always thinking about him. :) You know? That way he wont even have to ask in his head if I'm needy. (I'm not btw) |
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Another quick question; I'm currently in Florida and wont be back for 5 days, he told me to have fun and to be safe, and that's all. I'm not going to call or text him while I'm here, you know make the heart grow fonder. Do I have that right?
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My guy friend just said that if I don't believe that he meant it when the guy I like said, "I love you." Then I'm stupid.
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somebody mentioned bones, and eminem. 
lawl |
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no bones, and he repeats m and m? ah well, i would keep ur options open 4 a while here. 
stop tellin him u love him.  
I don't know what 'no bones, and m and m' mean, but I tell my best friend I love him, not the guy we are talking about. |
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Men rarely say those words? Hell, you'd be surprised at just how often alot of dudes say it. Why? Many reasons, but in your case, I earlier that he probably does "love you". Meaning, he cares about you, and he likes what you guys have now. Could he want more? Possible. But I also feel that he said those words because he doesn't want to see you with another dude. Guys hate liking a chick and seeing her date another dude. Wanna see a dude act like a prima donna? Then befriend him, and date another guy. If he has feelings for you, then he is gonna act a fool (so to speak, lol). I don't know if him saying "I love you" means that he really is "In love with you". I love my best friend to death, and she happens to be female. I tell her those three words all the time because I do love her. But I don't mean it in the manner of wanting to pursue a romantic relationship. Now, he could mean this, or he could really want a relationship with you. Like others have said, find out. Take it slow and see, but also look at how he acts towards you. If he really wants you, then he will let it show. Well, he does know that my best friend is a guy, and he does ask alot of questions about him. One time he had to stop cuz it was making me upset, and he knew it. (he stopped all on his own and said sorry) He says he wants to meet my friend, but I don't know. And with my best friend, I tell him I love him, but he doesnt say it back. My best friend says that I'm stupid for not believing that he said it on purpose, and he's usually right about these things. But like I said before, he has barely spoken to me since, just to tell me to have fun in FL on my trip and to have a safe flight. That's it. We do plan on hanging out for his birthday though... |
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Sunday night, this guy who I have been hanging out with, comes over to watch tv with me, we were talking about the VMA's and stuff. Well he starts talking, and he seems nervous, not able to finish sentences, and messing up his words, then out of nowhere he says, "I Love you." I looked at him and said, "What?" He just said he didn't mean to say that, he meant to say he loves Eminem. (The rapper) Do men say that by accident? I wouldn't think so. What is going on? Also he said that he'd be there for me, and kept asking if I was committed to the relationship we have. Please help. I love you = Let's get naked and bone 
I thought that for a second, but he already got it. :) And there was no alcohol until after the 'i love you'. I dont wanna scare him away, I'm gonna take it slow, see where it goes from there. His b-day is soon, I'm gonna bake him a cake, buy him a movie I know he's been wanting to complete his collection, and go to a kick arse museum. (it's basically a jungle gym for adults) I don't think it's too personal of a gift, and it shows I care. I went on a trip recently, and had to get on a plane, and he texted me and told me to be safe and have fun. awww. ;) |
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lol yeah sounds like he was just testing those "waters" ....lol the boy probably fell for you heheh How can you tell if a guy falls for you? well he comes to your house to watch tv and hangs out with you a lot and....he says things like, (oh i don't know)....I LOVE YOU! hello? this is you life calling....are you paying attention? Well, he hasn't called me yet, and we did hang out all day the next day, and that night. probably because your reaction hurt him. if you hung out the next day and didn't clear things up about the night before and what he said to you...well, now he feels like a fool. i don't get it...you are too shy to talk to him about something as important as how you feel about him, but you are not to shy to sleep with him??????...is it just me or is this just a tad bit backwards? True, true, but I did text him earlier about a movie he let me borrow, and he hasn't responded. |
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lol yeah sounds like he was just testing those "waters" ....lol the boy probably fell for you heheh How can you tell if a guy falls for you? well he comes to your house to watch tv and hangs out with you a lot and....he says things like, (oh i don't know)....I LOVE YOU! hello? this is you life calling....are you paying attention? Well, he hasn't called me yet, and we did hang out all day the next day, and that night. |
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He was too, but he almost worked up the courage to get it out. I don't think you need to worry about feeling foolish. Well, last I saw or heard from him was Tuesday morning at 4:30 a.m., he has not textd me or called me. :( |
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FYI: We are just friends, we hang out alot, watch movies, etc... He....loves....YOU! Silly gurl. I hope so, I do love him, but I'm too shy, or scared to admit it to him. Also scared that it was an accident. Then I would feel foolish. |
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Hunny it sounds like he already knows you're the one he wants ... all you gotta do is let it happen. Instead of just friends with benefits treat him like you would if he was already your man 
Thank you for your help, I appreciate it. |
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Oh, yes, I'm going to give him a shot, but I'm taking it slow, don't wanna scare him away.
Does anyone have any tips on how to show him, I'm the one he wants? |
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Yes. He loves you. Well, he loves the friendship you have, the sex you guys have. He loves that and I am sure he cares for you. But I think he said this because he doesn't want to see you with someone else. He "thinks" he loves you. But I don't feel he does. Thank you. :) |
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lol yeah sounds like he was just testing those "waters" ....lol the boy probably fell for you heheh How can you tell if a guy falls for you? |
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FYI: We are just friends, we hang out alot, watch movies, etc...  OMG!!! The no-bone-friend-zone!!!!
Oh, no, we bone, lol. 
so he's not gay? he's just scared then... he probably does love ya... I agree. Ms.Pickle needs ta' grow a pair and get him to spill his guts about it. She looks to be sweet enough to commit to. Awww, thank you, I am sweet enough, lol. |
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one way to find out, next time he comes over, greet him at the door wearing nothing but a smile...if he runs off, hes gay....if not, have fun... He's def not gay. |
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FYI: We are just friends, we hang out alot, watch movies, etc... OMG!!! The no-bone-friend-zone!!!!
Oh, no, we bone, lol.
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does he love eminem or in love with eminem? cupcakes like to hang out with women... HAHAHA! |
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Well, I know this much, he didn't say it to get into bed with me. lol
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