quit whinning:

I'll admit that I did not read every post in this thread, but I read some of them and I think a few were off-topic a bit so I don't mind skipping to the end :)

In answer to the original post, I must say:

My friend, there isn't anything wrong with you. However, I would suggest that you be careful what it is you hope to obtain from a relationship. When you say "he was your only source of happiness" it implies that you aren't satisfied with the other areas of your life, and that you are looking for a relationship to escape from your problems. However, a relationship will not make you happy - a relationship can only build on the happiness that you already have.

It's quite possible he's just not into you, or that he wasn't satisfied with the relationship. It's not about saying the right things or agreeing with all his ideas/plans/thoughts. You need to make sure you're being your own person. Nobody wants to date a robot (except for swingers just looking for sex)! He wants to date a person who has their own thoughts and their own ideas. Being a yes-girl just leads you down the path of abusive relationships and controlling boyfriends.

Not everyone is made for everyone. I can relate, from personal experience, that it's hard to move on from someone you thought you were in love with. We imagine our life with a person, and when they're gone it's hard to imagine anyone else - but it's not impossible. Only in time will you really be able to accept that.

You will date other guys. You will have boyfriends. You will get married, have a family, and be happy. And it won't be with him. However, even though we KNOW this is true, the hardest part is to EMBRACE it - and hope for the future that has yet to take place. You can't drive a car forwards when you're trapped looking in the mirror.

I hope that helps!

-Andrew