I don't think debate = arguing. It never needs to be combative, but that is exactly my point. People can't delineate between the two, so our disagreements/misunderstandings continue to isolate each side more drastically.

Case in point = politics. We all do have a common thread, as Americans (for those who are, obv), we want the best for the country, our children, and our tax dollars. But we are so busy calling people "libtards" or (insert anti-conservative name here), that the anger gets in the way of progress.

Seriously, proper debate should be a required course in grade school.

We find strength in society by embracing our differences and finding appropriate ways to communicate- not running from it.