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See, this is what I see as the problem. Everyone lets people get away with things. I'm not against letting someone borrow money, but to just shrug it off is kind of a sad thing. We gripe about the morals of people, and the apparent lack of responsibility but ya'll are your own problems if you're shrugging it off and not expecting and demanding those people to pay you back. No wonder something as extreme as a murderer essentially gets away with it. He or she knows he will. No one will truly be expecting him/her much less demanding him/her be truly punished for the deed. "If you aren't going to stand for something, then you'll fall for everything" comes to mind reading this, and seeing people just telling the OP to write it off. She tried to do a good deed, and deserves to get paid back. To tell her to ignore it, is basically telling her she's not much better then a doormat and to heck with it. It's a simple respect issue. thanks a lot!  i was raised and taught that when you loan somebody money you will get it back im not going to just let it go,she said multiple times that she would pay me back and i told her several times that she could make small payments and she never did but deiced to run out and buy concert tickets but yet she told me she was struggling.
and as for slander,no i never ever said anything negative about her,or her character i told her she can pay my back or do it in payments or ill take her to court.i said nothing about her being a bad person at all. so yes im fine the friendship ended but im not just gonna forget about b.c she was a friend at the time she always says shes hard up for cash but goes and spends money on concert tickets? when every time i spoke to her she always promised to pay me back its been 3 months sense i gave her the money and she always told me id get the money back but 3 months went by with the same story so no,im not just going to let it go. after all the things i did to help her out to get back on her feet and she tried to turn around the next day and ask if she could borrow 300 dollars for me. it is a matter of her being a friend and respecting me and obviously she choose to spend her money on things like concert tickets but she told me shes struggling interesting..how respectful of her to keep to her word.. |
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im not concerned about class or how it looks i always told her she can make small payments each week every time she got paid but she decided to run out and buy concert tickets.
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complete newbie
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were just one big happy crazy family but darn it were lovable! welcome!
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my weight ive battling with it for years on top of that ive got cyst on my ovaries so i have mood swings all the time
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so i went on my friends facebook that owes me the money i told her she can start making payments to mek or pay the whole thing or or i can look into small claims court
this was her reply " really you dont have to be mean, you know that I have been without a job too, I have been working parttime. and babysitting, trying my best. you need to quite talking to people like this. I will get your money to you $60 by the 15th. we have lost 1200 a month. we are trying to get caught up on things too. wow I thought you were a friend. guess not .you get your money!!!!!!" i always told her she could pay me back in installments and im the mean person? good to know |
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kick her in the face?
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 good for you i had to learn the hard way to
and my mother wonder why i dont like/trust very many people lol..well at least i learned |
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its hard to loan out money to family and never get it back ..but never loan money to friends ..sorry
i usually dont and i wont ever again.. |
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texting is more convenient at times then talking
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Look at it in the bright side It took $142 to get rid of someone not worth your friendship very true if i do stop being friends with her i wont mourn the loss of this friendship but figured id at least try to get my money back first! |
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she likes to pawn stuff so usually there is nothing around the house of value.so ill all else fails i should cut the friendship as well?either way imma kick her in the face! You might wanna re-think that. I mean, I heard she's been pawning stuff to pay for her black belt kung-fu lessons. I'd hate to see you get yo @$$ kicked! 
lol yeah i think i can take her,i mean she asked me to drive her to pick her up and drive her to work the other day but i declinded |
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she likes to pawn stuff so usually there is nothing around the house of value.so ill all else fails i should cut the friendship as well?either way imma kick her in the face!
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lol yeah fear sounds like fun but how will i get my money back?
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so like February i loaned a friend of mine some money $142 dollars to be exact and said she said she would pay me back.well here it is june,im not working at the moment and she has a part time job plus she runs a baby sitting service at her some.
ive been leaving hints on facebook about her paying me back and she always tells me she will pay me back.but she hasn't paid a penny back i even told her she could make it in payments and still nothing! how do i go about this? |
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HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!
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breakfast is served
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im in the mood to cook lot of food i think im going through modern warfare 2 new map pack with drawl!
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breakfast is served
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*drool* Aghhhhgrrrr...*/drool* dont worry fear ill cook up anything you want..oh the perks of being my friend!lol |
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breakfast is served
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good 'ole Tennessee..yeah i definitely have awesome cooking skills lol
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breakfast is served
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i cooked up a bunch of blueberry pancakes and eggs and put italian and cheddar cheese then i cut a jalapeno open cooked it and put some cheese in both halves!
come get it!
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Let me know what you think
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what kim said! word~!
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i love orton hes my husband and cena is my second husband!haha
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