Yea I know a lot of girls who would never consider younger guys i'm friends with one. I don't know I'm totally open minded to any age as long as it's not too young where it's illegal or immoral. I just think it's harder being around like 19-20 b/c dating younger girls who are like 16-17 is seen as wrong and girls who are like 21-23 won't look at you because you're younger.

b/c even based on looks if you're like 31 and a girl/guy you like is 19 you may just overlook them. I think age matters a lot more than everyone else does b/c a lot of girls who are like 20-22 near me all have their age parameters set as 20+ meaning I can't even e-mail them showing they have no interest in someone younger.

when i was 19, i went out with this 30 yr old. she wanted some fun and thats it. i was similar to you as i didn't like alot of stuff most of the people my age liked. frankly i thought they were childish. but you do have to find a crowd and hang out, the older women will come your way. but just remember that your gonna get older and the women will too. lol

Age is way more than a number. It is life experience. Now some people seem older and some people seem younger. So there is wiggle room. At my age, 6 years isn't too much. But people my parents age? Well, that is too much. And people I'm almost old enought to be a parent to, that is also too much.

Age is the #1 determining factor in this site IMO

Age certainly DOES matter. Not usually in something around 6 to 9 years if your both over I would say 22 or 23. But if your a guy around 60, and your girlfriend is around 25, You got no business together. The old guy mind set is so much at a different point than the 25 yr old. I mean if it's just about having some fun for a little while thats fine. But when you start thinking about marraige and stuff like that it's ridiculous. Yea, i'm speaking of personal knowledge. The girl wants a family one day. That man already has grandkids. No way in hell that lasts. It's not beautiful, it's just wrong

To be realistic, age really does matter depending on your preference. If you want a good companion to grow up with, get a older person (meaning probably a person within 10 years older at least) to help guide you but if you want someone to easily keep in check and (frankly) to control then go youunger. That's what I think but not everyone has to agree to what I said. Well, Happy New Year people!

then thats a problem! unles you live in Va then it's Ok apparently

ooops....I was logged in on wrong acct....Hes gonna kill me....lmao

I love a man that is 14 yrs younger than I am. He is more mature and mentally and physically stimulating than any man I have ever loved before. I dont know how much that says about my maturity level, but I really dont want to grow up anyway...lol At first I was very concerned about the age difference but come to realize I was mainly worried about what everybody else thought.....and why should that matter. I say lets follow our hearts and things will work out just fine. I think you'd be much happier with a more mature woman anyway....Good luck in your search.

Very true ZStar....drunk people are funny to watch. It's free entertainment. I've got a story but I'll make it short. When I was in college, my fraternity brothers and I played a prank on people at one of our parties. The FIRST barrel of beer that we put out on the floor was NON ALCOHOLIC beer....we wanted to see how many people THOUGHT they were drunk after a while. And you would be SURPRISED at the result. We had MANY MANY laughs just by watching people say how messed up they were and there was no alcohol in the beer. Can you say DUH!!! But, then we told everyone and brought out the REAL stuff and then the party was back to normal.

i have to go but will check back on this thread very interesting lol zstar your threads more populualr then mine

Not in alot of states, including VA. Legal age of consent here is 15 with a stipulation, that the 15- 17 year old party be within 5 years of the same age & over 15. Also, 16 & 17 year olds can have relations with someone older than that provided parental or guardian consent. A 16 y/o with a 20 y/o would be within the limits of the law here;^]

I think whats going to be hard for you is this...you are 19 and not allowed to go into the bars yet. I think a lot of the younger people like to go out to the bars and maybe thats why they won't date you?? I think once you hit 21 you will find that the age factor won't be so bad.
Don't worry, you have plenty of time to worry about dating and settling down. I read your profile and I think you have a great plan going!! Worry about your education and then worry about women!! Keep up your plan and you will do just fine

There's someone out there for you ZStar.....the New Year brings plenty of joy for people and I think you're in the right place to find someone. You seem to have a good heart and personality. Who cares if 19 year old girls think you're weird for not drinking or partying. I think that is a great quality to have. Let them become alcoholics and knocked up at 19 at a party one night, THEN the true test begins to see how mature they REALLY are!! P.S. I hope I did not offend anyone about the alcoholic and knocked up section of my comment....was not my motive.....

You know it use to be just fine IF the man was older, no one thought a single thing about it!! Now if you look around, its a lot of the women that go for the younger men!! I say HEY if it works out...go for it!!
I think in todays world we shouldn't have to answer to anyone, we should be able to do what works for each one of us!! I think the younger men enjoy the older women...thats a plus for us older women

LOL i get what your sayin but still even if your 19 if you got the maturity and you match with the women dont let any age stop you..only thing you might find awkward is maybe being older then her son but hey lol

if you like each other age does not matter, unless your 20 and shes 16