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Oh and another thing that all of you ladies should remember... Guys feel the same way about rejection as you do. It is hard for the to be rejected as well.. You are stuck with a double whammy... One the double standard of the guy being the one who is supossed to be the one to ask, personally I have always hated that and think it is BS... Ladies it is a new century it is OK for you to ask... The second is your beauty, guys tend to see your beauty and think that you must already be with someone. So they won't bother to ask. Especially the "nice guys" that you are looking for. After all they tend to be shy, or they do not want to offend. Not to meantion the fact that they feel insecure and afraid of rejection. It is OK to ask, in fact in a lot of cases you MUST be the one to ask. DO NOT sit around waiting, its a waste of time and you will miss out on a lot... You could very well miss out on someone who is perfect for you. Just because you were both afraid to ask... such a shame... The interesting thing is that I've heard men talk about the double standard and wanting women to ask them out or pay for dates or travel to see them, etc... But given that exact situation, they are often uncomfortable with the reality of a woman willing to do that. The means the double edged sword cuts both ways. Rejection stinks no matter which way it's flying... I don't I love it, and find it very becoming. |
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Oh and another thing that all of you ladies should remember... Guys feel the same way about rejection as you do. It is hard for the to be rejected as well.. You are stuck with a double whammy... One the double standard of the guy being the one who is supossed to be the one to ask, personally I have always hated that and think it is BS... Ladies it is a new century it is OK for you to ask... The second is your beauty, guys tend to see your beauty and think that you must already be with someone. So they won't bother to ask. Especially the "nice guys" that you are looking for. After all they tend to be shy, or they do not want to offend. Not to meantion the fact that they feel insecure and afraid of rejection. It is OK to ask, in fact in a lot of cases you MUST be the one to ask. DO NOT sit around waiting, its a waste of time and you will miss out on a lot... You could very well miss out on someone who is perfect for you. Just because you were both afraid to ask... such a shame... new subject: (since snarky just isnt getting me as always) matthew guy..........women will never ever get it..........ever...........you will find a couple, but generalizing "women" into a group......that is just a bad idea if you want to wait around until a woman asks you out on a date...ya may as well start buying cats LoL to true... I would have about 50 by now. 
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Thanks for the honesty, babe. There HAVE to be SOME decent men left! I mean, I know there are from being here at Mingle but... left in Spokane? I dunno. They probably all moved to Portland... I used to live in Spokane, I wentto Shadle Park High. 
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Oh and another thing that all of you ladies should remember...
Guys feel the same way about rejection as you do. It is hard for the to be rejected as well.. You are stuck with a double whammy... One the double standard of the guy being the one who is supossed to be the one to ask, personally I have always hated that and think it is BS... Ladies it is a new century it is OK for you to ask... The second is your beauty, guys tend to see your beauty and think that you must already be with someone. So they won't bother to ask. Especially the "nice guys" that you are looking for. After all they tend to be shy, or they do not want to offend. Not to meantion the fact that they feel insecure and afraid of rejection. It is OK to ask, in fact in a lot of cases you MUST be the one to ask. DO NOT sit around waiting, its a waste of time and you will miss out on a lot... You could very well miss out on someone who is perfect for you. Just because you were both afraid to ask... such a shame... |
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As I was saying, you have probably been asked out several times, but you missed it...
I noticed that you were far away from me so I was only half serious, which is why I added the sex part.
But, seriously if you were closer to me I would ask you out, and in reality I do agree with the sex on a first date thing... My advice to you is this, open your eyes and look around. There are a lot of guys wanting to date you. However, you have become blinded by your negative thoughts. |
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So I'm the only one who does't get asked? That's kinda an ego-crusher... 
Would you like to go out with me? I know that typically on a first date it is usually kept short. However, I think that you are worth far more then that. I would start by bringing you two dozen roses, each one representing one of your beautiful qualities. I would then take you to dinner at a very classy restaurant hand feeding you your favorite dishes. We could then go dancing as I hold you close and whisper in your ear how beautiful I feel that you are, while wishing the night would never end. I would then take you home with me and give you hours of the most intense sexual bliss that you have ever experienced, the memory of which would last us a lifetime. In the morning I would cook you your favorite breakfast, where you would find yet another two dozen roses waiting for you, representing two dozen more of your beautiful qualities. There ya go babe, feel better now? See someone does want to go out with you after all… 
You think you would notice huh?  
Thats why you don't think you get asked out.. You either don't notice, ignore them or just don't bother to reply, 
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Maybe some did, but you ignored them.
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So I'm the only one who does't get asked? That's kinda an ego-crusher...
Would you like to go out with me? I know that typically on a first date it is usually kept short. However, I think that you are worth far more then that. I would start by bringing you two dozen roses, each one representing one of your beautiful qualities. I would then take you to dinner at a very classy restaurant hand feeding you your favorite dishes. We could then go dancing as I hold you close and whisper in your ear how beautiful I feel that you are, while wishing the night would never end. I would then take you home with me and give you hours of the most intense sexual bliss that you have ever experienced, the memory of which would last us a lifetime. In the morning I would cook you your favorite breakfast, where you would find yet another two dozen roses waiting for you, representing two dozen more of your beautiful qualities. There ya go babe, feel better now? See someone does want to go out with you after all…
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Hi, Thank you
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Topic:
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Nope! But I'll take a corona!
OK I'll buy everyone a Corona. |
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Topic:
Tell me what ya think
Edited by
mathew420
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Sat 08/01/09 05:24 AM
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True, but sometimes another person can make you want to.
Tell me what you think of my profile as well please, and if or how I can improve it. Thanks |
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Topic:
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Edited by
mathew420
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Sat 08/01/09 05:14 AM
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smoking CAN be quit ya know.
Damn now I need a cig. 
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LOL short but sweet answer.
Hi
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Topic:
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Would you date me, yes or no?
Tell me what you think of my profile, how could I improve it? |
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Edited by
mathew420
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Sat 08/01/09 05:02 AM
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Hi everyone thanks for the welcome.
Nice choice on the song. Check this one out... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xF6pOMs00tk |
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Edited by
mathew420
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Sat 08/01/09 04:43 AM
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Hi
I am new here and I hope you like what you see.
To be honest for now I am just looking for new friends. However, if we click, then I would definitely be willing to expand on our relationship. I am a very outgoing and self confident type of guy that loves to flirt while at the same time make you laugh. I will always let you know what is on my mind, and yet I am also a great listener. I am a musician/song writer. I play bass and guitar. So one of my main interests is music. I tend to find at least a few songs that I will like in all styles of music. OK… that’s all you get for now. If you want to know more, you have to post here or contact me. I look forward to getting to know you. |
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