So French Kissing is not simply taking the woman to France to kiss?? Have I been doing this all wrong these many years???

Not as much as I used to when I was younger... maybe I just need a good kissing partner again

Dunno french kissing

Now that should be the post Wolf!
When does a slap mean no? Hard slap, gentle slap? ;^)

Sometimes! Depends on how it is said and under what circumstances. No can mean yes, no, or maybe. Or, I'm hoping you try to change my mind.

I'd have to say No, always means NO.

Might be because that's mostly what I hear now a days anyways.

Would you like to, ? No, not with you.....yeah that seems to sum it up.

why? if you value your Nutz it means no

Agree with that ... and how long you've known each other.
Someone I don't really know all that well yet, no is always no.
With my regular partner it could be different, although I can't really think of saying NO when I meant Maybe or YES. If I want to play games or flirt I make sure it's very clear.

Oh. I like being spanked.

not always .. Depends where you slap and the intent behind it .. Sexual play for example :-)

is that a no?

Depends on the tone of voice saying it

Topic: Does No Mean No?

Of course no means no.

No, is No.. and don't try to change my mind

For heavens sake! If you don't know the answer to that, then you should of been incarcerated or sleeping with the fishes, 35 years ago.

In my book no means no for a variety of reasons...like not the same interests, too distant to have a one on one relationship, etc. any number of reasons! I won't ever cross that line again. Lesson learned!!!

that's like asking if adultery is grounds for divorce


for the sake of the law,, yes

in reality sake, its up to the individual choosing to bring it to the law or not


sometimes , we speak to ourselves, try to talk ourself in or out of something

and I believe, in reality, that is true in a sexual encounter,, the mouth may say no, but the body and the physical response say anything but,,,,,,


safest bet though, is to not take the chance and to figure it means no

your partner is probably less likely to get angry because you take them by what their mouth says,, and its impossible that you will end up prosecuted for doing so

I think only the English speaking call it "French kissing".
We call it "Tonguing" or "tongue-kissing" in Dutch. No mention of the French at all

Lord knows it's related to frogs and their tongues, as the English have always seriously disliked the French and call them "Frogs".