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Fri 01/04/08 09:38 PM





very true miss gowings..in these past many years i have been through more relationships then i myself would care to count,with women who believed that they were strong enough.

and for the other question..the answer is yes.
sure there was telephone calls and emailings but it was never enough to shed the cold hard fact that my woman was at home waiting.
and for me it was always difficult to be away when i had that special woman.


Hmmm, I'm going to address the "at home waiting" She or (I) wouldnt be at home "waiting" That implicates sitting by the phone, laying on the couch, eating bonbons and singing oh whoah is me, my man is gone. She or (I) would be at home living. Doing things that make me happy, being involved with something. But the love you (we) share would be so strong, that we could overcome the distance between, and make the times together count so as not to question the times we were apart.....



right - like we are right now, living our full and exciting lives!!laugh

JK - I agree - the "at home waiting" comment made my neck hairs rise up too, until I really thought about what I am doing right now.


Not sure what you are doing, but I turned down at least a dozen dates to be online tonight laugh laugh laugh


Oh- ok then. I stand corrected.

HA I wish...been sitting here since 6 in my pjs, sipping Stoli & 7up...but I dreamed last night that I went out on a date...

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Fri 01/04/08 09:30 PM



very true miss gowings..in these past many years i have been through more relationships then i myself would care to count,with women who believed that they were strong enough.

and for the other question..the answer is yes.
sure there was telephone calls and emailings but it was never enough to shed the cold hard fact that my woman was at home waiting.
and for me it was always difficult to be away when i had that special woman.


Hmmm, I'm going to address the "at home waiting" She or (I) wouldnt be at home "waiting" That implicates sitting by the phone, laying on the couch, eating bonbons and singing oh whoah is me, my man is gone. She or (I) would be at home living. Doing things that make me happy, being involved with something. But the love you (we) share would be so strong, that we could overcome the distance between, and make the times together count so as not to question the times we were apart.....



right - like we are right now, living our full and exciting lives!!laugh

JK - I agree - the "at home waiting" comment made my neck hairs rise up too, until I really thought about what I am doing right now.


Not sure what you are doing, but I turned down at least a dozen dates to be online tonight laugh laugh laugh

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Fri 01/04/08 09:25 PM

very true miss gowings..in these past many years i have been through more relationships then i myself would care to count,with women who believed that they were strong enough.

and for the other question..the answer is yes.
sure there was telephone calls and emailings but it was never enough to shed the cold hard fact that my woman was at home waiting.
and for me it was always difficult to be away when i had that special woman.


Hmmm, I'm going to address the "at home waiting" She or (I) wouldnt be at home "waiting" That implicates sitting by the phone, laying on the couch, eating bonbons and singing oh whoah is me, my man is gone. She or (I) would be at home living. Doing things that make me happy, being involved with something. But the love you (we) share would be so strong, that we could overcome the distance between, and make the times together count so as not to question the times we were apart.....

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Fri 01/04/08 09:16 PM
Someone prop me up, I just looked at the clock...can I stay another hour?yawn

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Fri 01/04/08 09:14 PM


hmmmmmmmmm well that month better include non stop sex!!!devil drinker devil


oh yeah - I totally forgot that you get to have sex when you are in a relationship! I have been single way too long, I think.bigsmile


Oh yeah......theres the sex thing.....

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Fri 01/04/08 09:14 PM


SOUNDS GREAT.BUT TOM. I'M TRYING TO LOSE WEIGHT AND YOU'RE NOT HELPING.........


(((flowerforyoupopcornncokeflowerforyou)))

God help you when you see what I have planned for the Weekend Roll Call then. laugh laugh laugh



WAIT just a cotton picken minute, Tom...you promised there are no calories~~~~~

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Fri 01/04/08 09:10 PM

hey,i'm glad that i posted this topic then..there's a glimmer of hope for me still..perhaps my next relationship will be with a woman who is a little more understanding..

thanks for the feedbacks




Be honest and up front from the beginning, if she shows signs of being clingy or starts to question you, move on... it would be her own insecurity...and a man like you needs a secure woman!

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Fri 01/04/08 09:07 PM


but say that your man is home one month out of every two..this means that he is away from home for six month's out of every year..does it still mean the same?


yes- but she would need to be a strong, confident, independent woman with a life of her own; and a realtionship based on trust and communication is crucial.

Somebody like me or Gowings would probably fit the bill...

And both parties would have to have faith, trust, and confidence in the relationship. If either one cant do it, it wont work.
Let me flip it, could you handle being away that long and could you trust your gal to stay strong for you?

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Fri 01/04/08 09:02 PM

Yeah I'd like to know this answer too. I work for the railroad and when I go to work I'm gone for a day or so.
I'm not a workaholic but I do like my job.

Do tell.


I like it when a man likes what he does for a living, it makes him proud....

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Fri 01/04/08 09:01 PM



I think any type of relationship can work if there is trust and communication; oh,yeah, and respect. I personally have been single a long time so I wouldn't mind someone who wasn't hanging around me 24/7. I enjoy my alone time.


Dang it if we dont think alike, hiker! I love my independence and ya know they say that distance and the heart fonder thing!


I know! One of us is just going to have to have a sex change!


Well, I dont think my insurance will cover...lol

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Fri 01/04/08 08:58 PM

Nite all! I need some sleep - Chat soon! yawn

Nite Travel, sleep tight!

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Fri 01/04/08 08:56 PM

I think any type of relationship can work if there is trust and communication; oh,yeah, and respect. I personally have been single a long time so I wouldn't mind someone who wasn't hanging around me 24/7. I enjoy my alone time.


Dang it if we dont think alike, hiker! I love my independence and ya know they say that distance and the heart fonder thing!

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Fri 01/04/08 08:51 PM






Now, either I had 1 too many drinks, I'm bored, I'm weird, or I'm obsessed with my camera, cuz I just took pictures of my fingernails.........


Now that's just plain kinky. laugh laugh laugh


which part?


Taking pictures of your fingernails. I'm just wondering what you were doing with them at the time.bigsmile


Check it out! HA! Just glued them on today...not sure if I like them!



Well. They're long enough. devil laugh laugh laugh


HA! did I say glue? I meant, grew, yeah, I just grew them on today! Nice shot of my claddaugh ring though!

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Fri 01/04/08 08:49 PM




OMG! that is funny! hmmmmmmmmm,where are my batteries....



It is best to keep a 20-pack in one's night table drawer.


Mental note...stock in duracell


I can't believe chicks like us are single!! What's wrong with these guys?noway


ummmmmmmmmmmmmm they are ummmmmmmmmmmmmm guys! HA

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Fri 01/04/08 08:47 PM




Now, either I had 1 too many drinks, I'm bored, I'm weird, or I'm obsessed with my camera, cuz I just took pictures of my fingernails.........


Now that's just plain kinky. laugh laugh laugh


which part?


Taking pictures of your fingernails. I'm just wondering what you were doing with them at the time.bigsmile


Check it out! HA! Just glued them on today...not sure if I like them!

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Fri 01/04/08 08:40 PM


Now, either I had 1 too many drinks, I'm bored, I'm weird, or I'm obsessed with my camera, cuz I just took pictures of my fingernails.........


Now that's just plain kinky. laugh laugh laugh


which part?

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Fri 01/04/08 08:37 PM


OMG! that is funny! hmmmmmmmmm,where are my batteries....



It is best to keep a 20-pack in one's night table drawer.


Mental note...stock in duracell

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Fri 01/04/08 08:31 PM
Now, either I had 1 too many drinks, I'm bored, I'm weird, or I'm obsessed with my camera, cuz I just took pictures of my fingernails.........

gowings2007's photo
Fri 01/04/08 08:29 PM
OMG! that is funny! hmmmmmmmmm,where are my batteries....

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Fri 01/04/08 08:28 PM
Darn it, I thought I could stay up with the big kids, but I'm fading fast...must have been all the good food! yawn