What a wonderful daydream you just gave me.


"MOM! Is dinner ready yet?!?"
DAMN!!! Reality bites!!


I would LOVE to be able to find that in my life. HOW ROMANTIC and SURREAL!!!
Never had it tho' and maybe I never will.
But there is always that 'maybe some day' and I hope that dream can come true!

Never really thought about having a one time thing with a younger woman. Hhhhmmmmmm ..... maybe 'cause I'm not a guy?!? LOL


BUT Yeah! If a rich, established, older woman wants to spend her money on me and take care of all my monetary woes, HELL I just might think of being 'kept'!!! teeheeheeheeheeeeeee

Ella, I love your pic btw.
Do you think that Kermits parents would approve of him eating off that poor cats head?!? heheeheee
Or how about dating that fat Pig of a girlfriend of his. OMG! Different animal, heck a different species!! WTF!!! LOL

I've learned that you have to do what makes YOU happy. To do that one you must truly find yourself and get to know your inner workings. 'Cause in the end, sorry to say it so bluntly, your parents will be old, senile, or dead and you will be left alone with a very unhappy life that you lived to fulfill THEIR dreams!! And what will you have to show for it but a legacy of sorrow and regrets.

Don't allow this to happen to you. Search for your inner joy and allow yourself the opportunity to GROW away from the norms that were forced upon you but may NOT necessarily be yours. Make sure that your next 'moves' are what you want. Don't think of this as acting selfish BUT self-fulfilling. Isn't it selfish of others to place THEIR expectations on youand make you bend over backwards to please THEM?!!?

AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA ... if only I practiced what I preached so many years ago.
But at least I'm learning this for myself, too, now!!


Good luck to you in your decision and in finding your way through this.

I just wish SOMETHING would poke out!!!

'Cuz ya' like a man with a gut and no teeth!!!
And fire up that Harley!!

Here Kelly-Kelly, wanna play with some nice sticks?!? LOL

My parents were ITALIAN!! hahaha
They were never quiet or without judgement!! LOL

Let me just add here that I made some poor choices in my life because of what I thought others wanted or in trying to please others. I married because my parents and society 'said' that a 30yo should be settled in a relationship. I had a child because my mom kept asking when she was gonna be a grandma. Not that I really didn't want them myself BUT if I just thought about ME and what I truly wanted at that time or was BEST FOR ME, I would have had a very different outcome in my life.


Snuggles ~ I don't think it's actual socitey but the one that she has fixed in her mind.

Which means my parking will be free of charge, RIGHT?!?! LOL

My cats name is SANDY. hehehehee

My other one is named CARAMEL!

But that's why you asked the question Ella, it's ON your mind!!

I'm in your shoes too when I meet a guy. Not to sound stuffy or snobbish but I do believe that society makes us think in ways of 'status' and 'levels' and sometimes a man just might not be up to mine.

Take this guy I was 'dating' last year for example. He was a blacksmith. Not a high level profession but he was very creative and passionate about his craft. That was a turn on to me. He didn't make much money but that was OK with me 'cause of his passion and aspirations. So it wasn't about money, that could have changed and even increased in time.

I got rid of him 'cause he was one of the most BORING men I've met in a long time and socially inept, too. I didn't get the emotional and OMG! NO PHYSICAL!!! aspects from him so POOF! he was gone. LOL LMAO

BTW ~ Define High Maintainance?!? Hhhmmmmmm???

There's always relocation!

I have an Electric blanket!!

Mine is burning!

I had a fried of mine tell me last year, when I complained about the lack of men with substance around here, to realize what I was bringing to the table and if I offered the same as I was expecting.

It shut me up real quick and I realized that I was so unstable so how was I gonna find a man who was.

Me thinks you're NOT getting the whole SHABANG then.
If there are doubts then it might be time to pull out!


The BAGS got a point too.

Good idea Lilith!
Get the pen and paper ready and hop to it!! hehehehe


While you're at it you might just want to rethink what it is you're thinking of getting yourself into here. Sounds like ya' wanna make some changes in him and you know you're gonna get resistance.

I WAS just being silly ELLA. teeheehee

If a guy doesn't have a job or one that is sustaining then I too will question a future with him. I'm not looking for a caretaker or 'wallet' but an equal who can be counted on to 'pay' his fair share of the cost of living.

Like I just mentioned above too, I have aspirations and goals and desires and I personally could not be with a guy who didn't have any of his own.

I think I know where you're coming from 'girl'.
I too want the whole SHABANG!!
Lots of Money is not the issue here but I think the want or expectation to do better with one's life. Am I right?! You think he could aspire to something more?!

AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA!!! Now me understands better!!

Me thinks you can find the answer if you take the silver spoon out of your mouth! OOPPSS!!

Ya' vants it ALL!!!

I have COLD feet!!