it's really strange how attractions work, some logical, some illogical, and some just have a timeless attraction that comes entirely from somewhere else, that with caution, and thinking things out but hopefully not overthought could me something majical that one experiences once in several lifetimes, and needs no barriers or papers, it just is, and if it lasts for the work put into it, it may constantly renew it's refreshing aspect, for the facets of something like that are truly endless, and deserve to be explored at all costs if hearts, souls, and timing and thought permit it to happen. many people over-think themselves out of a good thing by self-sabatoging them-selves(guilty as charged in the past, and a little now) and one may not fall truly in love for a couple of years, but love that person dearly till that happens, or doesn't happen, and care about them at all costs, and nature will take it's course to see that end, or in some cases deny that, but the love never truly goes away, example, WW2, many were seperated, and then 20-30 years later were reunited and it was like they never lost touch, and the other half was filled. i think most of you on here desire this stong connection. what's instore for me, i haven't a clue, but i clearly have a busy future, and who can tell who i will share it with at this time, but i may dream.......they will always be free while they are with me if they volunteer their touch of heart...just a touch.....