Love at first sight does not exist, not unlike love itself. Love is such a rare commodity you are better off trying to get hit by lightning or winning the lottery. Better to understand that now rather than later...when it will hurt far more.

No do you ??

well, it's been a rather refreshing post, and a topic that most avoid for feeling like a fool to ask, and being afraid of the answers given. i think you will see more input from the days to come, and completely different takes and experiences. after all, there's about 1000 years of personal experience on this site at any given time, with all these people. it will make us exponentially smarter in the long run if we stay and learn form one another.

With me its more a "Lust at first sight".....love is a powerful word and not handed out lightly.....

darkowl.......

see what I mean...??

it's really strange how attractions work, some logical, some illogical, and some just have a timeless attraction that comes entirely from somewhere else, that with caution, and thinking things out but hopefully not overthought could me something majical that one experiences once in several lifetimes, and needs no barriers or papers, it just is, and if it lasts for the work put into it, it may constantly renew it's refreshing aspect, for the facets of something like that are truly endless, and deserve to be explored at all costs if hearts, souls, and timing and thought permit it to happen. many people over-think themselves out of a good thing by self-sabatoging them-selves(guilty as charged in the past, and a little now) and one may not fall truly in love for a couple of years, but love that person dearly till that happens, or doesn't happen, and care about them at all costs, and nature will take it's course to see that end, or in some cases deny that, but the love never truly goes away, example, WW2, many were seperated, and then 20-30 years later were reunited and it was like they never lost touch, and the other half was filled. i think most of you on here desire this stong connection. what's instore for me, i haven't a clue, but i clearly have a busy future, and who can tell who i will share it with at this time, but i may dream.......they will always be free while they are with me if they volunteer their touch of heart...just a touch.....

just be careful, and take is slowly, although you may not feel like you should. i had this connection, and he uprooted 3000 miles to move in with me. only then did we see how much we had fallen in extreme like, lust, adoration, and hadn't given ourselves time to put a real foundation in place. we're no longer together. so, i wish you the best, just take it slow.

lust at first site, love takes a little longer

I have to say, you gotta be on your guard man...I had such a strong connection to another woman...we could almost read each other's mind and even others said, they can't believe how we can get along so well. At the end she left me...so it could be extremely painful, almost like being stabbed and the wound don't want to heal, just keep opening up.