Topic: An open letter to the one you love…
Maj's photo
Thu 03/30/23 06:07 AM
If it’s your last day to be with him/her, what would you say to him/her…

delightfulillusion's photo
Thu 03/30/23 06:09 AM
Nice knowing ya, be seeing ya waving

Tom4Uhere's photo
Thu 03/30/23 06:53 AM
I'd imagine that all depends upon why it is the last day.

Perhaps its a bit more important to think about what you would say to yourself. After all, when he/she is gone you still have yourself to contend with.

It would probably be wise to realize you had feelings for them at one time so they must have something you are attracted to.
Since it didn't work...might be a good idea to examine what didn't work and why you allowed the relationship to go on as long as it did.

Try to separate your wise decisions from the not-so-wise decisions and make an effort to not make the same wrong decisions next time.

Nobody likes to get a final letter unless the relationship is so toxic its a relief.
Try to be gentle and respectful, even if they are not. Keep your word...If you say its over make sure its over. Nobody wants to have their heart on a yo-yo.

If it is the final word there's no reason to bring up the arguments or make promises. If its over...end it.
No more meets, no more phone calls and no more contact...at least for a few months.
You can't start a new relationship with someone else clinging in your heart. Its not fair to your new love and its not fair to yourself.

Try to remember you cared for them at one time so they can't be all bad. Choose to remember the good parts and focus on why you did and how you felt to make them happen. Then apply that wisdom in your next relationship.
Be able to recognize the red flags. Examine what happened and apply that wisdom to your next relationship so you don't keep making the same mistakes over and over.

The definition of stupidity is making the same mistakes expecting better results.

Laska Paul 's photo
Thu 03/30/23 08:39 AM


I would say Sayooooooooonaaaaaaraaaaaa waving Till we meet Again .. !!

Poetrywriter's photo
Thu 03/30/23 11:56 AM
If it was my last day to be with that elusive person I would say thank you for the moments we shared for they lifted me when I needed so and brightened my days when they were cloudy and you gave me a song to sing when I needed the words. If we never spend another day together I wish you the best for you deserve so much more than what I was able to give to you.

Don's photo
Sat 04/01/23 06:10 AM
Have we got time for one last...?

motowndowntown's photo
Sat 04/01/23 12:44 PM
Would depend on whose stuff is getting thrown on the front lawn.

Hagieh MoTo's photo
Sat 04/01/23 11:57 PM
I'ved reached my destination thank you for long painful ride. See you in the other side mylove :broken_heart::sob:

no photo
Mon 04/03/23 09:07 AM
Like hell this our last day together, we're working this out... I even brought flowers. Lol

no photo
Tue 04/04/23 10:40 AM
You ruined my life

Duttoneer's photo
Mon 04/10/23 01:20 AM

"We will always have Paris".

Ara's photo
Wed 04/12/23 01:28 PM
its a long painful ride, thank you for letting me in. i hope the new one in your passenger seat makes you happy more than me. you will always be my 1. thank you so much! its to painful to finally say goodbye. but i hope you will be happy with your fiance now. til we meet again my right person wrong timing love.🥺

Raju 's photo
Tue 04/18/23 10:47 AM
You ruined my life

hello hi have you darling

Just Snail's photo
Fri 05/26/23 06:56 PM
Nice knowing ya, be seeing ya :wave:

:wave:

no photo
Fri 05/26/23 08:54 PM
I hope I find my dream man on this app

bobtail76's photo
Sat 06/17/23 08:39 AM
Fire
She's coming down on her own

pumpilicious 💕's photo
Mon 06/19/23 01:57 PM
What a long strange trip it's been.

joby2001's photo
Mon 06/19/23 09:03 PM

What a long strange trip it's been.

Would be you like to with same person in next life ...my choice would be "hell no"

pumpilicious 💕's photo
Tue 06/20/23 06:02 AM
Edited by pumpilicious 💕 on Tue 06/20/23 06:04 AM


What a long strange trip it's been.

Would be you like to with same person in next life ...my choice would be "hell no"

I read what you wrote wrong. Yes, I'd experience all that bs again. But I'd do things differently lol