Topic: The Wait
Queen Kezaiah's photo
Fri 01/17/20 03:25 AM
I was in a relationship with this one guy for 4 years and he left for Dubai to pursue his career and dream on the sport he loves which is rugby. He got a contract in Dubai and I drop him off at the airport and said our goodbyes. He promised to keep in touch but now it's been 5 months and I've still heard nothing from him. I can see he's active on Facebook but no message or phone call from him. Should I stop waiting and just move on?

Sir Dino One Love ☝️💚's photo
Fri 01/17/20 03:28 AM
No word in 5 months? You gotta kick him to the curb and move on, surely you can see he has, best of luck to you.

TheArtist's photo
Fri 01/17/20 03:31 AM
To be fair, you're on a dating site looking for dating, so I think you've already made your own mind up what to do!

notbeold's photo
Fri 01/17/20 05:41 AM
Dump the fool and look for a real man.

no photo
Fri 01/17/20 05:46 AM
If he could leave you and then ignore you for five months, then you need to find someone who'll treat you with the respect that you deserve.

IgorFrankensteen's photo
Fri 01/17/20 05:49 AM
I find it's wise to recognize that whatever it is that you HAVE, is what your reality is about; and that whatever it is that you do NOT have, is also what your life is about.

If you continue waiting for someone who is obviously ignoring you, you are basing your life around believing you have what you clearly do not have.

Not logical.

Rock's photo
Tue 01/21/20 08:35 AM
5 months?
You have the patience of a saint.


If I were in an LTR, I'd dump her
if I hadn't heard from her in 72 hours.


no photo
Tue 01/21/20 09:05 AM
i was in 2 different ldrs. and each time we talked every single day, twice a day for hours at a time. unless one of us had special plans the prevented the sit down time and we always told each other of those in the conversation before it was happenning

motowndowntown's photo
Tue 01/21/20 12:03 PM
Edited by motowndowntown on Tue 01/21/20 12:03 PM
What does the guy have to do, hit ya over the head with the hammer of "I'm not into you anymore and probably really wasn't to begin with" before you get the hint????? Move on with your life girl!!!!!!!

no photo
Tue 01/21/20 12:11 PM
U must move on... He simply dumped u when he got opertunities

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Tue 01/21/20 12:16 PM
She already deactivated. Another 3 second attention seeker. I doubt anyone would come here to ask about this if it was real, uploading a photo and all.

Rock's photo
Tue 01/21/20 07:39 PM
At least, it's just a 'wait' thread.
And, not another 'chubby vs. skinny'
thread.

laugh


sikhar Verma 's photo
Fri 01/24/20 09:09 PM
hii