really nasty e-mail ask for me to text him ask why the reply was very nasty won't repeat block him

Lol the world is made up of all kinds of ppl ignoring the jerks is ok

I block him the e-mail he sent made me blush I don't blush

Just be happy not all of us are sucm douche bags.

Sometimes we make a mistake and that mistake gets repeated and who people keep telling us we are... is because a man is stupid enough to believe anything but who he actually is... he can try to sound hardcore and bad maybe even had an experience or two with the law... either way either how he will cry as he lies dying alone and afraid of the mistakes he made in life. None of us have a reason for the things we do except someone did it to us and we repeated the cycle it's a simple fact... There is no such thing as evil... just people that are sick....

There are some men that grew up with no sisters. they did not get to learn about women.

Never had any sisters but I did be a shoulder for a lot of girls to cry upon tell me anything all they ever wants and needs :) Sometimes I told them I wanted to be with them and this didn't help things I made a mistake when she wanted a friend... time and time again to learn that sometimes all a girl wants at the moment is a friend someone to talk to...

I for one is happy, mo. you not one of em sucm douche bags, right mo?
.... mo?

Yes you’re right we want a listening ear

Not even worthy of your thoughts

Don't confuse a listening ear to an ear with ulterior motives. Some will say what you want to hear!

Cat. that's like saying I wasn't bought up with a dog so I don't know how to treat it!
Everything is down to parenting and education.
I don't have any children but I sure as hell could raise them a whole lot better than some women or parents!

See. They won’t stay long. Time will tell who are true friends lifting us up

many nice men out there who get over look because the jerks are louder don't what I'm trying to said have trouble with words

I grew up with only boys and men still know how to treat a lady

thanks guy love you all your restoring my faith in mankind

I actually think Cat has a very good point. I've seen families with boys only and girls only, and both are entirely different. Totally different vibe.
I have one of each so my kids grew up having knowledge of the other gender. That goes by itself.
My ex had 2 or 3 sisters, and he too had learnt how girls are from an early age onward. I could tell :)
Doesn't mean men without sisters are douche bags, but it can help if a man grew up with sisters around him.

I don't doubt that. Consider this- those "scumbags" as you call them, make it harder for the decent ones to get anywhere. I can understand your frustrations with them. In the process of you being guarded and sceptical about men, you inadvertently take it out on men that never set out to take advantage of you.

Some manage to convince you that their intentions are honorable. Others, may never be able to. I suspect that the "others" do one of two things. Retreat, or lash out. They may turn to becoming the "Scumbags", just to seek out some sort of revenge for how the women have treated them.

I believe some men with sisters don't learn much about women. Mine, taught me something valuable. How to duck. My father insisted that I never hit girls at an early age. All that did was give my sister free reign to haul off and wallop me any old time she felt like it, and get away with it. ( a very good reason why I haven't talked to her in 30 years)

Brothers, on the otherhand, may learn from each other about women by comparing notes. But, since I never had one of those, I wouldn't know.

Hi Carol... I'm assuming you're referring to messages you get here? Although it's disheartening to get those kind of messages, try to consider the source. This is the internet and there are both men and women out there who are only interested in conning you. They will use all kinds of tactics to do that, including intimidation and nastiest... that's what cons do!

It's best not to focus on that or even try and figure out why they are like that... it will drive you crazy and send more your way. The Universe is funny in that way. If we ask for patience, the Universe will give us opportunities to practice patience. Or send more scumbags to figure out why they are like that, haha.

You seem to know there are good men out there... give them your attention and energy... and simply block the rest.

have some anger issues lost 3 people in less than a year