why pretty or decent looking women prefer to seek man who very wealthy? is it materialism or to enhance their life to make expensive travel? do they really care about relationship? do they live more themselves?

Probably the same reason men seek the 'pretty or decent looking' ones..
they think that is where the value is.

what is the source of this generalization about pretty or decent looking women?...so you really believe none of the women in a relationship with a non-wealthy guy are pretty or decent looking?

you ever been in a relationship? are you wealthy? if not, what are you telling us about the women you dated or had a relationship with then?

If a man can't find beauty in a woman
he's looking at,

His eyes are blind to the world.

Liked what maybwecan said.

I think it's an old attitude left ove from the not too distant past when women couldn't earn a living. Our grandmothers would have learned from their mothers that love's all very well for a few years. But find a rich one if you can.
Attitudes change at a slower rate than social change.

I wouldn't mind a rich woman lol
In fact are any of you ladies fantastically rich by any chance?

lol Hit me up.

Does rich in spirit count?

Why do men keep asking that question?
I don't know any woman who's like that.
One friend I had was like that, but she made a bomb herself and she wanted someone equal, also ambitious, who had something going for himself etc.

Yes very much so. Much more than material things!

To the extent that this DOES happen, I have come to suspect that it is due to SIDE EFFECTS.

There are lots of SIDE EFFECTS to having a lot of money. Such as:

* better fitting clothes are possible and likely;

* better overall health, due to higher quality food (this makes any person look and smell better);

* the APPEARANCE of much greater CONFIDENCE, due to having little or no fear of being unable to pay; all problems are easier to solve, just by paying someone else to solve them; that sort of thing;

These kinds of "side effects" add up to making ANY person more attractive to ANYONE ELSE, even when the idea that the rich person will give you some of their wealth, never comes up.


This is why the idea that rich guys get more interest than us po folks, is far less due to pervasive money grubbing or "gold-digging," than it is to the exact same reason why a person with the SAME amount of money as everyone else, but perhaps better taste, or healthier habits, will tend to have an easier time being well liked.

Another sort of accident or side effect of the way socializing works, is that when someone IS more attractive (for ANY reason), they will tend to have more ability to choose among a variety of interested suitors, and as ALL humans do, will tend to choose the most physically attractive they can. The overall RESULT of this, is that the more attractive people will end up with other more attractive people.

Since wealth does result in higher attractiveness, it will APPEAR that the good looking people are actively choosing the rich mate for the sake of the money alone, and the rich mates are actively choosing the best looking people in turn, based on looks alone.

But this is really just the accidental result of the most common reasons why ANYONE likes ANYONE ELSE.

Since you’re making generalizations, let’s just say the wealthy guys want arm candy — so it’s win, win.

I want romance honesty cuddling holding hands respect someone who pays sometime right now I pay everything if I want Togo somewhere I work extra time and save I want companionship

do you believe, this is a futile statement in modern times?

"to love, honor, and Obey."