Would like to know people's perspective on this.....

How do you know if someone you like .... really really likes you back?

Opinions please?

Honestly? You don't unless you ask!

When he tells you so?

and hope they arent lying to you...

yeah there really no way of telling right away unless you really ask the person but should ask them face to face so u can see it in there eyes then you will know that the feelings are the same

Please see response above

very true....also dont ask too often...it shows insecurity. I was like that after my divorce....nobody likes it

You can usually tell if someone is lying about liking you, besides actions speak louder than words.

Yes. But aren't there people who say stuff you'd like to hear even if they don't really mean it?

Though at times there are people who never say it but just show it. But at times were just blinded by doubts and fears that we tend to get confused. Anymore opinions?

if, after sex, they still talk to you they prolly really like you

True. That's when you start looking at actions, if the actions don't match the words, you know he's lying.

the eyes tell it all.....along with their actions. Words are nothing but words.....

It has been my experience that women who have felt strongly about me seem to be in continuous contact. That would include: personal visits, phone conversations, e-mails, etc. When there is a mutual attraction, people want to be together. I know a woman is attracted to me when she laughs at my adolescent jokes, takes interest in things women would normally dislike, [football, boxing, etc.], and simply desires to be around me. Also, when someone really likes you, they feel at ease around you. They can relax and refrain from putting on false airs. Finally, there is an old adage, "out of sight, out of mind". Meaning, if there is not some kind of ongoing communication, this probably person does not feel as strongly about you as you would desire.

I think if you have to ask then they are really not that into you. If someone likes you they generally show it in their responses and actions toward you. Do they make a special effort to talk to you, make your life pleasant, safe, or easier? Do they go out of their way to be near you? It doesn't have to be rude or overt but you are aware of it.

true that Diligent. I just saw this movie with DeNiro where this mob guy advises a kid to lock both car doors, then unlock her door(passenger side) walk around back of car and look through window to see if she reaches over to unlock driver door. If she doesn't he should dump her.

You say

I really like you. Do you like me?

He says yes
He says no
He says. Not in that way
He says. As a friend

Then ya know !!

After we have agreed on a price